What I Know About Isaan Girls

Money means a lot of things to Isaan girls. How do you get money then? It is either by getting good education and after graduation is to get a good job that pays well, right?

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So what is my point in writing this article? I have heard many stories about middle aged farang men who fell in love with Isaan girls and all the prerogatives that come with being in a relationship with them.

Isaan Girls 101

Just a little bit of information to those who do not know. Isaan is a province located in the north eastern part of Thailand and well, women from there are called Isaan women.

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They are shunned away from the country because of the region where they are born in and are considered as a second class citizen as well. So by nature, they actually don’t stand a chance against other Thais who are born and raised in the city or from wealthy families.

Some Isaan girls have worked in a go go bar (see the relation on how they meet farangs) and are always on the prey for foreigners or Westerners because they think of them as someone with big, fat pocket.

Poverty usually drives these women to work as Thai hookers and due to lack of education and their entire family depending on them; it would drive them to sell their bodies to men for some quick cash and if they get lucky, meet a farang who could give them money on a monthly basis.

So when their families see that amount of money they are sending back home, this is when their mothers would encourage to send more and this is quite easy to achieve when they met a foreigner who is quite stupid to fall in love with them up to the point that they will give them monthly allowance, etc.

Why Do Foreign Men Like Isaan types?

Well, for this matter I should say that foreign men do not like Isaan girls in particular.

I believe that they are into petite, dark-skinned or tanned girls because they find it attractive and this is how most Thai girls (Isaan women) look like. This is because you can’t find these types of women back home. I am not quite sure if Isaan girls find white men or foreign men attractive unless they have the money.

The Evil Behind Falling In Love With Isaan Women

I am not saying that you should not fall in love with an Isaan girl because I might be wrong if I claim that ALL Isaan girls are like this. Stories coming from men who have fallen trap to their bait are somehow still caught up in the web of deceit and lies.

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See how it works is this way and it just goes over and over again: Middle-aged farang who have just come to Thailand must have seen paradise as they are welcomed by these beautiful, naïve-looking and deceitful Isaan girls.

Eventually would hook up with them after they have meet in a bar or somewhere “dirty,” relationship turns serious and in turn, the foreigner would have to ask the girl to stop working at the bar to prevent other men from gawking or touching her.

However, there is one condition – since you have asked your Isaan girlfriend to stop working then it would result for her to cease sending money to her parents, then the whole problem starts. Since you are the deciding factor for this career move, of course you would have to give her money on a monthly basis.

Then after your holiday in paradise, you would have to go back home but your heart and mind is wandering back in paradise where you have left your beautiful girlfriend.

Then you would get a mail from her saying something unfortunate has happened and their family would need some money in order to sort it out otherwise they will go hungry, etc. They will try to be as creative as they can be with their stories and you, on the other side of the world, willingly rush out to the nearest Western Union to send thousands of baht in order to keep your girlfriend and her family.

You do love the attention because I doubt that you get it back home. Isaan girls are willing to give you whatever you need, most especially in bed and they are willing to adapt to whatever your preference is.

As long as the cash is flowing, she will love you and her family will love you too. That is more than enough. When you hear the cliché, money can’t buy love – I guess in this kind of situation it is possible.

Is it still possible to find a Thai girl who isn’t after money?


There are also great stories of foreigners who fell in love with a Thai girl who isn’t after their money. T

here are still women out there who can fend and support for themselves. Look through other places rather than dirty go go bars where you can only find prostitutes who sell themselves for money. You can look through great dating sites such as Thai Friendly or Thai Cupid.

Why online dating sites? Simply because there are still people or women who are looking for someone to date genuinely without any money involved. ThaiFriendly and ThaiCupid are just some sites where you can be able to filter out your search according to your preference so you wouldn’t be shocked with any unusual surprises or extra baggage they carry.

My own verdict:

This writing aims to inform men especially farangs who might be gullible enough to get caught into the web of deceit and lies.

I am also not saying that ALL Isaan women are like this, perhaps there are 1 or 2 in 10 women who will genuinely date you but only time will tell if they are just after your money or not.

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Biggest tip, bar girls or prostitute are only there for “leisure” purposes but I guess it would be safe to say to find a decent isaan girl whom you can actually date.

12 thoughts on “What I Know About Isaan Girls

  1. Marshall
    19 October, 2016 at 4:10 pm

    You are right about issan girls after money. I met a very pretty girl in a small bar on second road in Pattaya a few years ago her name was Jeab. We dated several times then she left her work there to spend time with me. I was giving her some money so she could take care of her two kids and herself. I was working in Australia 3 on 3 off so I could fly back to be with her quite a lot. I was sending her money (not a lot) every month by then. I took her travelling with me around Thailand and even to Bali once. We were pretty tight as a couple after 3 years and I considered her my best friend. We were even married in a little sacred ceremony in Maenam in Ko Samui. Little did I know she was dating another man and possibly more men, behind my back. I found out on Facebook with photos of the guy with her together and she was even wearing the clothes I had bought her. I never heard from her again after that trip to Samui. She cancelled her phone number and email account so I couldnt contact her and disappeared off the radar. No doubt the money I was sending her wasn’t enough.

    1. 20 October, 2016 at 2:04 am

      Ouch, yeah you need to be careful, best not to meet girls in beer bars or anything like that to be safe.

    2. tommy
      23 February, 2017 at 8:52 am

      key point is that u met a bar girl @ a bar. although there are girls there seeking true mate, there are also girls there waiting to win the lotto. unfortunately u met the latter. better luck next time and may I suggest to stop looking for love in the wrong places?

  2. Eric
    3 November, 2016 at 8:04 pm

    I am the Lucky one then and met in a small isaan city, where there are 6,7 farang and farang couples farang who are there 30-35 years and i hope to be one of them, almost two years a relation and she and family very polite and caring to everybody and well educated.

  3. oracle
    17 December, 2016 at 3:24 am

    Rubbish to the op…if your a retard with women back home..then your retardness will last a little bit longer in isaan….ive had an isaan chick for four years…still going….shes hot ..slender..and no caucasian trollop can tie her shoe laces….you talk about money in isaan LOL…it cost you 10 times as much back home…isaan food and people are 100 times better than western…no laws..no helmets ..licences..drink in public…everythings cheap…if youve ever made love to an isaan chick..fuck me…youll never go back….i swear man its the best feeling ever…sawadeeka!!

  4. Paddy Glazier
    23 February, 2017 at 12:23 am

    Only a fool for a business man can write such bad thing about country girls from Thailand. Country people in Thailand are more popular than southern Thai. You’re a sour man and needed to stop be shallow and learn more about the history. And girls world wind aren’t all that just some are more retarded and others. Peace off!
    I’m from the country and pround! Perhaps you should remove that hate naked picture off your website to how many men gonna your website.

    1. lee
      25 February, 2017 at 3:11 am

      love the Isaan Girls…always go to the north-east of thailand, great food….very beauityful area, and the girls are so sweet and always look after me…..not just sex…..but food, learning about thailand

      1. 25 February, 2017 at 4:13 am

        So many have said this, seems if you find one without a bar they are great to be with.

  5. PJ
    13 March, 2017 at 2:40 pm

    Money? Isnt that what we all want? When Thailand pays average salary 300 baht who can blame them, it’s the farangs that are being played and good on those girls for earning money.

    I’ve been with my Issan girl for 5 months, luckily I work in Thailand so have seen really what she is like. Pisses all over western women, really cares for my health, wants me to eat healthy, shares a bath with me, sits on my knee and talks a lot. Cooks for me, And yes the sex is amazing, really is. But it’s her smile that wins every time. Is she scamming me for money, who knows, but always keep some of your heart back for yourself. And keep all your money in your home country / bank, and dont tell them everything about your business. I also met her family so think she could be genuine, but still being very cautious.

    And with all that in mind, what’s the difference with Western women? Most are driven by money, or at least a nice quality life, arent we all? Isn’t that the same as Issan girls? A chance in life to have something better. And let’s not forget buddhism who ingrains respect for your parents, and taking care of them when they are old and wanting the best for their children. No different to Westerners.

    Really pisses me off with all the bad press they get, but doesnt piss me off as bad as the fat badly dressed westerners they have to pick from. Shame on those guys…

    1. 13 March, 2017 at 2:52 pm

      Good post PJ, good luck with your girl.

  6. Adam West
    13 April, 2017 at 2:14 pm

    I met my Thai wife when I was 21 (together for 20 years now) on a Thailand stopover for R & R whilst on an Asia deployment… Got married 8 months later and she knew from the start I didn’t have money. She’s not from Isaan luckily but from the North.
    Now, most of what’s written here is true. My wife and I know quite a lot of Thai ladies locally (not living in LOS) and most are from the place the article is written about. And I can say that most are a train wreck waiting to happen. I have even been told directly by some of them that it’s all about money and that they usually have several guys on the go at any one time and cashing in.
    The funny thing is that it’s like most of them have split personalities from what I’ve seen. They can be reserved and traditional and then totally crazy to the point of violence. They don’t know how to handle money and that is the root of all problems. Once they and their families become dependent on financial support they need more and more and will do just about anything to get it. You may find this harsh but, most Thais aren’t that well educated and it shows. Although, I think things are changing slowly.

    If you’re just looking for a good time and have a bit of cash to burn and know how to avoid the traps then go for it.

    1. 13 April, 2017 at 2:37 pm

      Thanks for the post Adam, nice to see a story of it working out, hope you and your wife enjoy the rest of your life together.

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