For anyone coming here to meet Singapore girls, you are in for a treat. But before I talk about that, after having lived in 5 countries and visiting 20 others, I can say Singapore is the most twisted place I have ever had the displeasure of getting caught up in. and yet that same place is exactly what makes expats sell their souls for contract work here.
This is a guest post by Cyclone, a long term expat living in Vietnam and Singapore.
I do want to point out that despite the city’s effort to distance itself from the rest of South East Asia, there are very obviously SEA vibes here, so don’t enter the city thinking too highly of their society.
People act so fake, and their values for what make them happy so off the mark that it can make you sick to your stomach. Singapore girls, however, are overall a positive aspect and despite them beinghard work. they are just alluring enough to keep you horny and pushing for more. These following points refer *only* to true, ethnically-Chinese Singaporean girls (~70% of total girls in Singapore), and not the other multitude of mixes you’ll run into in Singapore.
This one actually takes a few months of living in Singapore to catch on to, but is probably the first thing to know upon arrival. Singaporean families have gained a lot of wealth over the past 20 years, meaning the current generation has lived nothing but rich lifestyles and in everything was handed to them.
Singapore girls don’t know the idea of work or tribulations, and will not feel inclined to lift a finger for a man, expat or local. As such, they suffer from some pretty overly idealistic views of how to be treated, walk like penguins, talk and write about the most pointless subjects. They make zero effort to entertain or improve the lives of those around them.
Just replace “white hipsters” with “chirpy Asians.” The reason this is so angering is that it makes you want to do jack shit for them either. As men, we by nature want to reward good, correct behavior, not the entitled language that one observes in Singapore girls.
Western yet feminine
Men who escape to Asia for their respectable, eager-to-please women will some change when they take a peek towards Singapore girls. The country has a lot of western traits, rampant feminism, placed on a pedestal surrounded by men, and a general “impress me” attitude infect any modern society.Thankfully however, and the main reason I prefer Singaporean girls to American girls is that there still exist sexual polarity in this society.
Women still act like women. They are fairly passive, let men lead, giggle easily, often are happy when men buy things for them. They know their role in a work or household. Sure, you get many career women out here, but when it comes to relationships, rules are rules. There is no confusion on what women’s priorities are around here unlike the cluster fuck found in America.
“why would this one be different?”
A little dose of Singaporean men. Unless a woman travels extensively, her primary experience with men is a flock of cookie-cutter. Most are beta providers that step on one another to show who can offer her the most. It’s not a bad preposition either. I’m sure a lot of men would love the fact if their advanced degree, stability, and investments result in the level girl that they got.
But this effect pigeon holes the type of men they are trained to see. Singapore girls brains think of men in black and white, making them blind to various types of expats or holiday makers they meet, especially if they lived the typical lifestyle. Thus when approached by any man whose financial status is unknown, the one question going through their mind is, “why would this guy be any different?”. You should not be offended if your vast experience or witty sarcasm doesn’t register with them.
It can take months of intensive “undoing” for a Singapore girls mind to even understand that multiple facets exist to fulfill various desires she has. For her to weigh, like other women, the pros and cons of every man that approaches her, and ask herself questions such as “how wet would I get when this man bangs me tonight?”.
Zero personality, all ego
“But Cyclone – if Singapore girls live such straight edge lifestyles and are surrounded by carbon copy men. Then I, the exotic and experienced expat, should be the breath of fresh air woman are fiending.” Well, yes, there is a subgroup of Singapore girls who have left the country that will give you well above average attention. But at their core, the only things floating in these women’s minds are the numbers and status.
The overtaking of traits is a scary and very real product of their society, but the women here literally *do not notice* non ego-related characteristics in front of them. They have no sense of sarcasm, no sense of how to flirt, and their faces (and minds) literally go blank when a man teases her.
Despite all we have been told about girls secretly wanting an alpha while hiding it from society and peers, Singapore just might be the only place where that is true. So be confident and be showy.
Sex and loyalty
When I say “sex’”, I don’t mean that these women know what sex is all about and purposefully are scared off it . what it really means is that I suspect Singapore girls don’t even know what sex is. It’s probably the worst crime of Singaporean society – the complete negligence of a woman’s own sexual awareness, who feel no need or urgency to fulfill her own desires even when they are at their sexual peak.
The shame is that Singaporean girls are actually incredibly hot, when compared with the surrounding countries of Malaysia, Indonesian islands, and even by Hong Kong standards. But anyway, the best place to meet Singapore girls I using Singapore Love Lines the number on Singapore dating site , here you’ll find tons of sexy Singaporean girls, They are not impossible to get, but take a more time time and effort than compared to the likes of Bangkok or Manila. But they are worth it.