थाई लड़कियों को डेट करने के लिए ब्लैक एंड इंडियन गाइड
थाईलैंड में अश्वेतों और भारतीयों के लिए यह कैसा है, और क्या थाई लड़कियां हमें पसंद करती हैं, ये प्रश्न 2018 में मुझसे सबसे अधिक ईमेल किए गए।
अस्वीकरणइस लेख का बाकी हिस्सा जानबूझकर आपत्तिजनक, असहज रूप से नस्लवादी और डार्क ह्यूमर के नाम पर भड़काने वाला है। अगर आप आसानी से नाराज हो जाते हैं तो कृपया अभी चले जाएँ।
सचमुच, मेरा इनबॉक्स दुनिया भर के भाइयों द्वारा मुझसे पूछे जाने वाले इस तरह के सवालों से भर गया है:
- अगर थाई लड़कियाँ आपको नापसंद करती हैं
- अगर थाई लड़कियों को सांवली त्वचा पसंद है
- क्या थाई लड़कियाँ मुझे इसलिए पसंद करेंगी क्योंकि मैं ऑस्ट्रेलिया में जन्मा भारतीय हूँ या संयुक्त राज्य अमेरिका का एक अश्वेत व्यक्ति हूँ
- अगर थाई लड़कियाँ अरबों को पसंद करती हैं
- क्या वे जो कुछ भी ऑनलाइन पढ़ते हैं कि अश्वेत और भारतीय थाईलैंड के मैल हैं, वह सब सच है?
यदि आप काले, भारतीय या किसी भी त्वचा के रंग से हैं जो सफेद या पीले नहीं हैं, तो मैं आपको बताने जा रहा हूं सच मेरी आँखों के माध्यम से.
मैं उन सभी बातों का विस्तार से वर्णन करने जा रहा हूँ जो एक अश्वेत या भारतीय व्यक्ति को बातचीत करते समय जानने की आवश्यकता होती है। थाई लड़कियाँ या थाईलैंड आना, क्योंकि खेल के नियम आपके लिए अलग हैं।
यह आपको यह बताने का भी अच्छा मौका है कि मैं श्वेत नहीं हूं, श्वेत लोग इतने मजाकिया नहीं होते।
क्या थाई लड़कियां नस्लवादी हैं?
क्या सभी थाई लड़कियाँ नस्लवादी हैं? नहीं।
हैं कुछ थाई लड़कियाँ नस्लवादी हैं? बेशक, एशिया शायद दुनिया का सबसे नस्लवादी महाद्वीप है।
और कुछ से मेरा मतलब है कि यह बहुत छोटा प्रतिशत है, यहाँ रहने के अपने 6 वर्षों के आधार पर मैं कहूँगा कि यह प्रतिशत एकल अंकों में है। मैं बैंकॉक में रहता हूँ जो एक बहुत ही आधुनिक शहर है, अगर आप थाईलैंड के अन्य क्षेत्रों में रहना चुनते हैं, तो मैं देख सकता हूँ कि बड़े शहरों में बदलाव के साथ यह संख्या बढ़ रही है।
Why is it that Thai chicks don’t like Indians? They are generally rude, smelly, cheap and abusive to women…including black women. My experience is that black guys like you understand the culture and follow customs and are polite and courteous. Drop the racism bag man! it is not the end-all for every complains that brothers have.
Peace out
Hey Bill,
I think the latest generation of Indian men are better (the ones that live in the west). They tend to dress better and not be so rude, but your comments are correct in how Asian people view them. It doesn’t help that lots of Indians from India come to Bangkok every year and compound the stereotypes even more.
I’m Indian and sadly, I approve this message. I love Thailand and not just for the sex tourism. Motorcycles is my passion and after the whole Maehonsong loop I go to Pattaya to relax and play with the tigers (literally).
But everytime it saddens my heart to see my Indian brothers behave non-chalantly towards girls(not just Thai) and all service jobs in general. They feel that they got money to throw around and every girl is a working girl.
I’ve made my attempt to even learn Thai … And I’ll continue to always come to Thailand every year(10th visit this time)
I’m not smelly or rude or cheap or abusive … I actually smell of Jasmine and lilac. And as much as I agree, your statement is the one that is racist.
I’ve loved Harvie’ blogs and keep up the good work man !!!
And yes … Asians are the most rascist and Indians are the most !!!
Thanks, I love my blog too.
This is great and proves the problem Indians have. You say you’re not like them but your comment is more arrogant than typical Indian, and to make things worse you start explaining your body odor, that’s too sleezy. You’re 100% Indian stereotype but cannot see it yourself.
We have an Indian friend of the family in Europe, real nice guy, all his colleagues like him, in most ways he is a hell of a nice guy. But sleezy, oh yes, like his comments to married coworkers on facebook are just insane and completely inappropriate. 2 decades in the west hasn’t changed him at all but no one care, they just ignore it with a hidden smile but unfortunately you cant expect that from Asian girls you just met.
You would be shocked how many wealthy indian businessman come to thailand giving out 500 baht tips and 20K baht tips to their girls not uncommon LOL.
You won’t see these types of people in NANA / Cowboy lol
Great one again dude. And quite surprised you didn’t raise the dick size argument that actually does exist in Thai girls stereotypes about black men. Or maybe they just like it fine?
That’s a good point, I’ll add it now.
Quite possibly your finest blog to date Harvie for accuracy. I expect some readers will be butt hurt but your statements are bang on. Being an British gentleman of light tan, height and a brother of Iron I can most definitely relate to your experiences.
A few observations I made during my stints in Thailand :
The facial hair thing : I usually sport stubble or a lightly trimed beard whilst in the UK. I go full clean shaven when in Thailand for reasons you have mentioned in the blog. Contrary to this I did receive some comments from girls that had seen me both clean shaven and with 3-4 days worth of stubble saying that they preferred the latter!.
Dick Size & Henchness Stereotype : First off I used to get called out a lot by Ladyboys when frequenting the shady areas. More then once I would get a “hey bodybuilder! come here!” when walking around. Not once did a cute thai girl say that to me. Conclusion : Thai girls are scared of hench and think that they will get smashed and killed. Ladyboys love the meat and want to be manhandled by a hench I guess. As for the dick size thing, well during a 4 month stint in BKK I had a few friends come over from the UK and they wanted to visit DR BJ’s. 2 of us went in and we sat down whilst a line up of about a dozen girls were brought in. A lot of them were giggling, the mamasan said they want to know if you are big? to humour them I said I am pum poi but medium, referring to my fat little sausage in a comical manner. I was then told that 3 out of the line up were interested in gobbling my meat. Again more stereotyping because I am a big guy they assumed I would be packing a weapon and afraid of being destroyed. My white friend whom was quite small in stature had his pick out of the entire line up.
Being a brother and crewing up with dem wiggaz. This also works well, I met up with 2 white Norwegian guys whom were on holiday and we had a lot of success on nights out in clubs and generally Thai girls were very receptive. I didn’t used to frequent clubs solo (find it boring) Unless I was spending a week or so in Pattaya and taking the P4P option.
Dressing up : Generally in the day times I struggled with the heat, hence I would always be in my gym gear. Trainers, Shorts and usually a vest, not that I was looking out for it but I expect as I wandered around BKK I was being given a wide berth as in their eyes I looked like a scruffy kunt. I didn’t care, I did not want to sweat to death! In the evenings always made the effort, shoes, chinos and usually a shirt or polo shirt. Found it easier to make eye contact and exchange a smile when walking around. This would not happen during the day when I was in my lifting gear! I always dressed to impress when meeting dates from thai friendly although during april it was quite uncomfortable wearing trousers!
A final observation, as my grandfather is Portuguese I have the ability to literally go from a light shade of brown to full on dark mediterranean tanned after just 1 day of sunshine! my first visit to Thailand was in 2014 and was literally 2 weeks partying in Pattaya, I barely saw sunshine and hence did not Tan. The 2nd time when I spent 4 months in BKK and did some travelling I did tan and go really dark. I am not sure if it’s all in my head but I got the feeling that I was getting a lot less attention once I had developed a dark tan, even from the P4P girls.
Cultural differences can be crazy, tanning injections are super popular here in the UK at the moment. I know so many kunts using them, not just women but plenty of guys. then over there in Thailand you have people going to clinics for skin whitening!
Very good points. Your comment will be helping out many others in the future I think.
I get the same with LBs, I think they crave attention from all men because they want positive validation that they are women and sexy, and they don’t mind the size.
In the day I too sometimes wear shorts, but if I do I have no intention of talking to girls, just to do my day to day chores.
My skin tone is like yours, if I spend two days in the sun I’m blacker than coal.
I agree with Harvie. Racism is normal in Asia and not a big deal. If you are uncomfortable getting stared at, having people ask you questions about your race, and the occasional racist encounter don’t go to Asia. But if you’re just a chill dude who understands that people that look like you cause a lot of fucking trouble worldwide, and that if you “act white” most people will treat you well then you’ll have a great time. In fact, I think in some ways you have an advantage because you are fetish/niche. While your success rate will be lower with day-to-day girls there are plenty of girls of love that BBC.
tl;dr Asia is harder for browns than white guys, but just act white and you’ll have a great time. Or get rich because at the end of the day the most important color is green nigga
Pretty much.
“The first step is to admit that being black and Indian is not okay and that you need to make a change.”
Oh man this cracked me up
Glad someone saw it.
Yeah, me too. LOL
The article is more an opinion than fact and only a fool would take those tips, I have black friends banging Thai and Vietnamese girls daily and this cum skin wanst you to be more whitelike to be liked or get laid. What a joke.lol
I would doubt that unless they are paying for sex in which case, in which case I do believe you. Or if they do, they would be the exception rather than the rule. This article is not opinion, it’s a proven method that works very well. This advice is not for fools, it’s for people who know how the real world works.
No its assumption on your part without consideration other variables, these are not backpackers and not English teacher kind of guys, they are there for business and some teach at the universities there, they dont pay for sex and no man should pay for sex anywhere in the world. There are other qualities women are attracted to beyond looks.
The point is you only wrote on what you know don’t generalize, I am offering you to see them in action as they laughed and agreed to enlighten you when i shared your article with them, dont take my word for it, take me up on the offer.
There is racism no doubt but only bigger fools pay attention to that, I mean you told you or promised you that you would be liked anywhere in the word? You take what you find and work with it.
If you say it is so, then I believe you. If they are portraying all or many of the usual black stereotypes and getting girls, then that’s amazing and I’m happy for them. But they are the exception, not the rule.
Nice post buddy, shows how you crawled into the Thais mind & cultures
This is a hilarious post and very true. All the tips are also good for indians/blacks in thailand, western or not.
Personally I use all of the tips myself but a few (I leave tightly trimed beard, but dress sharp no shorts lol.)
I LOLd hard at the pickup a white guy b4 you pickup a thai girl, so true. Personally I would never do that myself out of fear of having to hang out with some lame white guy.
These two groups(black/indian) have to work 2X as hard to get half the respect of whitey/women everywhere in the world why different in thailand?
Reality is racism in asia is just more blatant, dont act like everything is great for black people in america, or indians on a plane/border or whatever in the US.
Ahmen.
Nice post. How would you say this applies if you were to do online dating? The advice you gave seems to mostly matter to meeting girls in social situations.
I would apply the tips to online dating as much as possible too.
Bro, there’s no doubt in my mind that you are white. There’s not a black dude on earth that would have so little self dignity to write the self deprecating jokes/comments that you made under the false guise of “honesty”. Most if not all of them had little if anything to do with making the point you were conveying at the time. I call bullshit.
You’re the first commenter to disagree with what I’ve said, have you had another experience in Thailand being black, would love to hear it if so.
Just read this article.
This was yet a another great post! and I can say what you are saying is true too about here in Central Asia. I am black. But I dress like those Korean metrosexual dudes in that picture you have above, and I get lots of positive feed backs. I would like to say that Asians are far less racists than what blacks and colored people think! I get alot of attention from girls here and many of them would date me if I was intrested in them. Asians are not afriad of me or even discriminate, most espcially since I act civil and go against the sterotypes in American media like you mentioned on your post.
Most asians do not see blacks or have never seen one and the only representative they see are those rap videos. That is not Asians or white people’s falut. that is blacks fault for allowing themselves to be represented in this manner! Most blacks would rather die than dress or represent themselves in the way that would get them to be precieved in a positive light. and I say this as a black guy! None of them would ever respect other people’s spaces and want’s everyone to kiss their asses!
Please IGNORE any butt hurt black/indian/arabs! they are just snowflakes or they have entitlement problems and expect everyone to kiss up to them without them integrating or respecting other’s ettieques!
Good point in your second paragraph, go to China and everyone will stare because half of them have never seen a coloured person before.
I’m a brown guy too. I have the accent which is close to American accent. actually that helped me a little to get some Thai girls.
Black guys don’t need to get Thai girls. They can go to different Islands to get White girls.
Which places in Bangkok do you recommend for cheap dates? I went to some bars and a glass of beer was 200 baht. Some food in some regular restaurant was about 400 baht.
These price may cheap for you but I look for cheaper one for my next trip.
Bangkok is a big place, do some googling around your location and you’ll find lots of options.
Great blog post Harvie and very informative. It’s not racist just because it’s true. Many people refuse to face reality and rather sugar coat things. Too many people miss the point.
The whole purpose of this post is to help Indian men and Black men score and get laid while visiting Thailand.
You’re spot on when you say Thai ladies are afraid to have sex with black guys. It’s not just the black stereotypes about the thug life. They also hear all the stories about black guys having big fat 12 inch dicks and they’re afraid their tight little snappers will get honed out and stretched. I’ve seen many black guys at Nana Plaza and Soi Cowboy, etc. get double charged by Thai hoes because of this. I guess they consider it the big black meat surcharge. Lol …..But even so, many white guys also get charged extra at some soapy massage parlors and GoGo’s. Many have a farang surcharge and also hear some Thai girls complain about white men’s larger prick size and having to ride some white guys big fat white buffalo…
As far as Indian guys go, I don’t think most Thai women are scared of Indian men. Many of them just try to avoid them due to stereotypes that they’re cheap charlies and have bad hygiene. But like you point out, these stereotypes usually don’t apply to Indian men raised in the west.
My best mate from London is of Jamaican origin. When he came over for a month he had just as much success as the white guys.
I saw no faces of disgust or disapproval and many girls enjoyed his conversation.
I can understand thais disdain for the uncouth Africans and lndians, and they do themselves no favours with their awful personal hygeine.
And oh yeah l almost forgot….his penis is huge
I know of a white guy who said he was South African, he was cut off by some bargirls who had been very exited to meet him just a little earlier when they thought he was western. At the end of the night itts not so much about skin color as its about how rich country they think youre from.
How their view to other Asian people, such as people from Singapore/Malay/Indonesia?
It’s much better.
It’s not always easy to be white in Asia, we too get bad excuses like the big dick one from girls. I’m 6’1 and thats already enough to make some girls cautious, but often its just something they say, and I’m sure the same is very often true for black guys.
The last bargirl who tried TOO hard to ignore me said I was big and looked like I was going to hurt someone, not sure what that meant but ok. Anyway, she was actually quite into me and already the next day i boned her for “free”, no barfine, and for someone who did her best to not talk to me the night before she was now too talkative, thankfully she was smart enough to almost make it interesting.
Girls never tell the true truth but to them that is the truth, it’s their truth, they don’t even know that they lie because to girls reality and truth are not the same, truth is reality adjusted to make them look better.
I don’t know what they really think of black guys but I know it aint what they say. A lot of the time they will say The Right Thing, what they think their friends would want them to say, whats socially correct in their eyes, and then they come up with some or all of the excuses Harvey mentions.
You are FUCKING LIAR more precisely a MOTHER FUCKING PIECE OF WHYTIE SHIT!!! You can tell a LIE a million times but that isn’t going to turn a LIE into TRUTH!!
तुम क्यों नहीं इंग्लैंड या आयरलैंड वापस चले जाते और अपनी सफेद गुलाबी चूत वाली वेश्याओं को चोदते, बजाय इसके कि तुम थाईलैंड जाकर १००० भाटों के लिए एशियाई महिलाओं को चोदो...हाहाहा...तुम कमबख्त सफेद मूर्ख...थाई महिलाओं को सफेद लोग इसलिए पसंद नहीं हैं क्योंकि तुम सफेद हो, बल्कि इसलिए कि जब वे तुम्हें देखती हैं तो वे मूर्ख बन जाती हैं...हाहाहाहा
मैंने बहुत सारे व्हाइटाई लेडीबॉय (या कैटो) भी देखे, जिन्हें नीग्रोज़... और गंदे बदबूदार भारतीयों द्वारा चोदा जा रहा है... हाहाहा
मैं कहता हूँ कि भाड़ में जाओ अपने देश वापस जाओ मादरचोद, बकवास, बेकार बकवास का टुकड़ा!!!
🙁
थाईलैंड या किसी अन्य देश में कैसा व्यवहार नहीं करना चाहिए, इसका उदाहरण 101.
मैं एक श्रीलंकाई लड़का हूँ और मैं एक भारतीय की तरह दिखता हूँ। लेकिन यार, तुम्हारी बातें सच हैं। मैं पिछले महीने 3 हफ़्तों के लिए बैंकॉक गया था, और मैं हमेशा बढ़िया कपड़े पहनता हूँ और अपनी दाढ़ी कटवा लेता हूँ। अंदाज़ा लगाओ क्या?
मैंने अपने प्रवास के 21 दिनों के भीतर 12 सामान्य थाई लड़कियों के साथ एक भी पैसा दिए बिना संबंध बनाए। उन्होंने मेरी जाति के बारे में कभी चिंता नहीं की क्योंकि मैंने अपने कपड़े साफ सुथरे पहने थे, और उनके साथ सम्मान से पेश आया।
इस लेख में आप बिलकुल सही हैं। यह सब आपके खेल, आपके लुक और आपके आत्मविश्वास के स्तर पर निर्भर करता है।
मुझे लगता है कि यह सब आपके आत्मविश्वास, ऊर्जा, सौंदर्य और दृष्टिकोण के बारे में है। जब भी मैं किसी क्लब में जाता था, सभी लड़कियाँ बहुत उत्सुक होती थीं और मुझे हमेशा उन्हें यह बताने में कठिनाई होती थी कि मुझे कोई दिलचस्पी नहीं है। इस अर्थ में मैं हमेशा सबसे आकर्षक लड़कियों को चुन सकता था और पा सकता था। वैसे मैं एक द्वीपवासी हूँ और मॉरीशस से हूँ 😉
हे भगवान!
यह सबसे मजेदार (और सबसे ईमानदार और सटीक) बात है जो मैंने इंटरनेट पर पढ़ी है। कोई नकली-बकवास फील गुड फ़्लफ़ नहीं, सिर्फ़ ख़ूबसूरत व्यंग्य में लिपटा हुआ शुद्ध सत्य।
और मैं यह बात एक भारतीय के रूप में कह रहा हूं, हालांकि मैंने अपना अधिकांश जीवन यूरोप/अमेरिका में बिताया है।
मुझे लगता है कि आप बैंकॉक में एक सुरक्षित जीवन जी रहे होंगे और थाई महिलाओं और संस्कृति को वास्तव में नहीं समझते होंगे। मेरी शादी एक थाई महिला से हुई है और हमारी एक 9 साल की बेटी है। हम उत्तरी थाईलैंड में लगभग 25,000 की आबादी वाले एक शहर में रहते हैं। मैं तीन में से एक हूँ इसलिए मेरे ज़्यादातर दोस्त थाई हैं।
ज़्यादातर युवा थाई पुरुष आलसी होते हैं, वे शराब पीते हैं और जुआ खेलते हैं। महिला रोटी कमाने वाली होती है, और फिर वे तलाक ले लेते हैं और बेहतर जीवन जीते हैं। ज़्यादातर थाई महिलाएँ सिर्फ़ एक गोरे फरांग पति का सपना ही देख सकती हैं। साथ ही, उनमें से ज़्यादातर अपनी उम्र के युवा में दिलचस्पी नहीं रखती हैं, वे कम से कम 15 साल का पुरुष चाहती हैं। उनकी सोच यह है कि वह एक गोल-मटोल पत्नी के साथ खुश रहेगा और भटकेगा नहीं, और उसे और बच्चों को एक अच्छी ज़िंदगी देगा। वह अपने पति के लिए एक पत्नी का सपना सच होने जैसा होगा, उसकी सभी ज़रूरतों को पूरा करेगा, इससे पहले कि उसे पता चले कि उसे ज़रूरत है। थाई पत्नी होने के बाद। मैं अपने कुत्ते को किसी पश्चिमी महिला के साथ संबंध नहीं बनाने दूंगा।
अब अश्वेतों के लिए। अधिकांश एशियाई अश्वेत लोगों से मौत से डरते हैं। फिल्मों या रैप संगीत में काले लोगों को देखें। क्या मुझे और कुछ कहना चाहिए। बार की लड़कियाँ काले पुरुषों के साथ व्यापार नहीं करना चाहती हैं क्योंकि उन्हें लगता है कि सभी काले पुरुष घोड़े की तरह लटके हुए हैं और उन्हें डर है कि वे उन्हें चोट पहुँचाएँगी। अपने लिंग से उन्हें मारेंगी और मारेंगी।