Thai Cupid: How To Use It To Get Sexy Thai Girls

Thai Cupid is the newly branded Thai dating site previously known as Thai Love Links. ThaiCupid It’s by far the biggest dating website in Thailand.

If you want to get meet hot Thai girls and get laid easily, keep on reading.


Is it easy to setup a dates?


Whenever my friends come to Thailand, two weeks before I tell them to join this site. If you upload a few pictures of yourself clean shaven dressed in a shirt, you will at least 10-30 message per day from Thai girls as soon as you create an account.

Talk to them for a little while then ask them if they would like to meet up for dinner or visit a club or bar when you land. Almost all will say yes if they are not working that day.  You will easily be able to setup 5-10 dates within a few days of using Thai Cupid.

After the date just ask them if they would like to come to your room and watch a movie or have more drinks. Most of them know what to expect and getting a one night stand is fairly common (it’s why so many guys come to Thailand).

What sort of Thai girls use Thai Cupid

Generally speaking you’ll find all types of Thai girls on Thai Cupid from good hard working Thai girls to university girls who just want to have some fun.

Thai girls are broken into two categories on this site:

  • Regular girls – these are girls who don’t have too much education and work in entry to mid level jobs. Their grasp of English is okay and they will often be up for meeting you right away. These girls are pretty casual and up for fun. They are not prostitutes and will not ask for money.
  • University/career girls – the second type of girls are girls who are studying higher education and Thai girls in high paying jobs. These girls will often have much better English, drive cars, have paid better salaries and can help you get into Thai circles a lot better. You are better off meeting these girls in bars or cafes.

Any Thai girl who uses Thai Cupid is interested in white guys and all you’ll need is a nice picture and a friendly opening line (mention something in their description to show you’ve read it) and they will reply 90% of the time.

Thai Cupid is nothing like western dating sites, once you sign-up girls will message you in their droves.

Some girls are that are on the site who are Thai bar girls and will not mention it in their profiles, which can be annoying, but no big deal this is Thailand after all (I would assume 1% of all girls on Thai Cupid are Thai bar girls). If the Thai girl is showing some very revealing pictures and you’re not sure, just use this line it works well and you don’t offend them either:

Hey, I don’t want to sound rude but I have had some bad experience on this website before with girls who ask me for money for sex. I don’t think you’re this type of girl because you seem very nice and genuine, but I just want to make sure you’re not a bar girl before we meet. Sorry for asking, I don’t wish to offend.

They are few and far between though. I would say 99% of the Thai girls on Thaicupid are normal decent hard working girls, so don’t get put off by the 1%, there will be a small percentage on all Thai dating sites.

Most girls that will want to talk to you are okay in English, fairly nice and not after your money, they just want a good boyfriend (or a friends with benefits kind of thing). Most will work full time jobs or be studying at various universities.

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What features does it have?

You can only send messages as a paid member, as a free member you can’t really do much and it sucks. The good thing is Thai Cupid does offer a full refund policy, but if you you want to meet a ton of hot chicks in Thailand and don’t want to deal with paying for sex or figuring out if girls are hookers in clubs, Thai Cupid is a no brainer.

I would say that even if you’re not good at flirting with girls, you will be able to score with at least 75% of all your dates.

It also allows members live messaging and even video calling, so you can make sure the girls actually look like their pictures. They have a good filter setting so if ladyboys are not your thing, you can put them to auto hide and they won’t get to see your profile.

Filters such as city, age, height, weight and all the other stuff you get with your typical dating sites Thai Cupid provides.

Traveling alone or looking for a girlfriend?

if you’re traveling alone in Thailand and want to meet good looking Thai girls, who will show you around and take care of you, then check this site out. If you use the website to talk to girls and start a few normal conversions (don’t send dick pics), I would say you can get laid around 4-8 times with different girls in a 2-3 week period. This is coming from several readers and many friends and personal experience.

Message girls and ask if they would like to be your travel partner and show you the sights, many would love to do it and stay the night too. Your other option will be to visit go go bars and get girls who are only after your money.

If you want a serious relationship, then message career and university girls to find good yourself a good Thai girlfriend. The site is also the number one place to find a long-term partner.


For single guys of all ages – Thai Cupid is your ticket to heaven. To make the most of this platform I suggest joining a few weeks before you plan to land in Thailand and start interacting with girls.

Even if you tell them you’re on a two week holiday they will want to meet you. Most Thai girls don’t like Thai guys because they don’t treat them with respect, that’s why so many use sites like Thai Cupid.

If you’re looking for fun and action in Thailand without wanting to pay for sex, within an hour of joining Thai Cupid you will have 20+ girls messaging wanting to know more about you.


10 thoughts on “Thai Cupid: How To Use It To Get Sexy Thai Girls

  1. Paul
    4 June, 2014 at 2:10 pm

    Yeah I signed up for a 1 month and got helps of girls messaging me, was a bit annoying as some dont speak too great english but it was enuf to set up 5 dates before i landed.

  2. Roberto
    12 July, 2014 at 8:13 am

    Managed to find a cute girl on there who agreed to be my tour guide when I come to bangkok next month, can’t wait!

    1. joseph
      25 November, 2014 at 3:07 pm

      Roberto, How did you trip go? did you end up meeting up with the girl who agreed to be your tour guide?

  3. Dave R
    10 October, 2015 at 10:53 am

    Thai Cupid is perfect if you’re travelling alone or don’t want to pay for sex. I joined a month before I visited Thailand and was able to setup dates easily in Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket.

    Half the girls I meet at a nearby restaurant close to my hotel. I then asked each girl if they wanted to come back to the hotel, over half said yes on the first date.

    Reading this blog makes me miss Thailand.

  4. jose
    17 June, 2016 at 12:48 am

    Great place, I banged lots of gals off it

    1. Eric V Gootee
      27 February, 2017 at 2:14 am

      Of course you used protection?

  5. Glen
    21 January, 2017 at 3:58 pm

    Thank you for this post 🙂

    On a different note I was wondering about the use of Line app when taking the conversation to the next level.
    Do you guys use your regular/normal line ID or do you have a separate ID for this.

    1. 22 January, 2017 at 5:08 am

      If you have a girlfriend then maybe a 2nd Line is better, if not then use your normal one. You can delete and black without issues.

  6. Steve
    15 April, 2017 at 10:49 pm

    Age question. I’m 62. Does that put me over the hill for Thai Cupid?

    1. 16 April, 2017 at 4:04 am

      Hey Steve, it does not. You may not get the attention that the younger guys do and maybe the 20-30yo old girls will be off limits, but you should be fine other than that. Just make sure you have some solid pictures uploaded.

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