Thai Friendly: How To Use It To Get Sexy Thai Girls
Thai Friendly is the biggest online dating site in Thailand, in this article I’ll provide you with tips on how to use the site and meet normal Thai girls.
What sort of Thai girls use Thai Friendly
You’ll find all types of Thai girls on Thai Friendly from hard-working Thai girls, university girls who just want to have some fun to the freelancer hookers.
There aren’t many Thai men on Thai Friendly and many of the Thai girls on Thai Friendly are here to find a western partner or friend.
Thai girls are broken into five categories on this site:
- Regular girls – these are girls who don’t have too much education and work in entry to mid-level jobs. They make up a large chunk of the user base. Their grasp of English is okay and they will often be up for meeting you right away. These girls are pretty casual and up for fun. They are not prostitutes and will not ask for money
- Career girls – the second type of girls are in higher paying jobs and typically have a university degree. Some will be looking for a serious boyfriend while others are just there to see what happens. These girls will not ask for money or anything like that and also make a large chuck of the database of girls.
- Older women – these are girls over the age of 30 who are either divorced or single, sometimes they may have children. These girls are looking to settle down and ideal if you’re over the age of 45. They are very mature in the way they speak and will be upfront with that they want. These girls will not ask you for money
- Money diggers/hooker – these are girls who are looking for a guy to take care of them, take them to fancy places and just treat them all the time. I’d say around 5% of girls on Thai Friendly fit this category. You’ll know right away if you’re talking to a gold digger because when you decide to make a date she will ask you to take her someone where super fancy, or she will keep talking about his status.
- Ladyboys – yes there are ladyboys on the site, they will all state in their profile if they are a ladyboy, if you’re unsure it’s okay to ask. I’d say less than 5% of the userbase are ladyboys.
Any Thai girl who uses Thai Friendly is interested in white and Asian guys, all you’ll need is a nice picture and a friendly opening line (mention something in their description to show you’ve read it) and they will reply 90% of the time.
The type of girls you’ll find on Thai Friendly
Thai Friendly is nothing like western dating sites, once you sign-up expect to get half a dozen messages after uploading some photos of yourself.
Some girls are that are on the site who are Thai bar girls and will not mention it in their profiles, which can be annoying, but no big deal this is Thailand after all (I would assume <5% of all girls on Thai Friendly are Thai bar girls). If the Thai girl is showing some very revealing pictures and you’re not sure, just use this line it works well and you don’t offend them either:
Hey, I don’t want to sound rude but I have had some bad experience on this website before with girls who ask me for money for sex. I don’t think you’re this type of girl because you seem very nice and genuine, but I just want to make sure you’re not a bar girl before we meet. Sorry for asking, I don’t wish to offend.
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Yeah I signed up for a 1 month and got helps of girls messaging me, was a bit annoying as some dont speak too great english but it was enuf to set up 5 dates before i landed.
But how do I get laid with foreigners
Managed to find a cute girl on there who agreed to be my tour guide when I come to bangkok next month, can’t wait!
Roberto, How did you trip go? did you end up meeting up with the girl who agreed to be your tour guide?
Thai Friendly is perfect if you’re travelling alone or don’t want to pay for sex. I joined a month before I visited Thailand and was able to setup dates easily in Bangkok, Pattaya and Phuket.
Half the girls I meet at a nearby restaurant close to my hotel. I then asked each girl if they wanted to come back to the hotel, over half said yes on the first date.
Reading this blog makes me miss Thailand.
hello really thank u about all.
ı did same what u told. but ı have questions, ı find girl who is 18 years old and we will meet also stay in hotel.
is it legal in there to have sex 18 years old girl. ı red age must be 20.my mind mixed which one right
Yes 18 is fine.
Great place, I banged lots of gals off it
Of course you used protection?
I got on Thai Friendly before I came and hundreds of women messaged me. First thing I get settled in hotel one sent here what’s app number first message so I started chatting with. She came over I really liked her we got along well and she stayed with me and spent her money on food to feed me because I was broke on the promise I’d pay her back in a few days when my check came in. I paid her back and gave her a bunch of $$ because she was so good to me I felt it was in order. Now we’ve been together almost a month with few issues. Here’s my issue. I’m falling in love with this woman and don’t ever want to leave her but after this time I hardly know much about her. Can I trust her? I know money is important to them they need it I’m generous with her she doesn’t really ask for money. I’m an old man she’s 38 if that. I tell her this she’s to young for me. How do I not get my feelings hurt when runs off
Take it slow, don’t rush anything, be honest, communciate.
Thank you for this post 🙂
On a different note I was wondering about the use of Line app when taking the conversation to the next level.
Do you guys use your regular/normal line ID or do you have a separate ID for this.
If you have a girlfriend then maybe a 2nd Line is better, if not then use your normal one. You can delete and black without issues.
Age question. I’m 62. Does that put me over the hill for Thai Friendly?
Hey Steve, it does not. You may not get the attention that the younger guys do and maybe the 20-30yo old girls will be off limits, but you should be fine other than that. Just make sure you have some solid pictures uploaded.
Goldmine for Thai girls. I uploaded a few pictures just like you said in a shirt and I got dozens of messages the first day. Any ideas for good date spots?
I need to move to Thailand!
All malls have okay priced restaurants. Best to ask her to suggest a local Thai place, it will be fun letting her pick the food and cheap. Beers usually aren’t more than 50b on the street either.
Here’s my advice – join the website 3-4 weeks before you get to Bangkok and start messaging as many girls as you are interested in. After a few back and forths ask for their Line ID or Whatsapp and just message them once every 4-5 days.
When you land at the airport, get yourself a simcard and start messaging them. I literally had a list of 6 girls on my Line that wanted to meet. Quite a few will flake or stop talking to you, so talk to at least 3-5 girls.
And heres my advice: girls have a short attention span when it comes to texting/messaging, after only 3 days their interest in you fade and they focus on guys they met more recently. You said it yourself, quite a few will stop talking to you, thats the 3 day attention span limit at work. The pretty ones have too many offers, you need to be there already and move reasonably fast. As for the older, with kids, ladyboys and ugly, who cares, no need to visit asia if youre ok with lower quality.
In regards to Thai Friendly dating site, is it only good for white men? How do Thai women feel about black Americans? I just now considering visiting Thailand early next year and I am just learning as much as possible about this location and Thai women.
They are less friendly if you’re not white. This is not to say no girls will speak to yoy. Let me put it like this. If you’re white and message 100 girls, around 90 will reply. If you’re black and message 100 girls, around 40-50 will reply.
I am brown guy and I have been living here for a year or plus. Dated many Thai girls some even for 5 to 6 months and banged a lot on fist date. What I can tell you is typical native Thai girls are into white guys ( these girls are lil tanned skin and Asian looks) where are the mixed one mostly Chinese descendants are into black guys and brown guys. Most of the Thai girls don’t like Thai guys. I am brown with bread and get a lot of heads turn around towards me when I walk in the mall not (not boasting) but it’s also how you carry yourself and approach. Make sure you wear good cologne
Hi Harvey,
How do thai girls feel about other asians ( filipino, singaporean, korean etc)?
I am interested but would like to know first. I am US born but asian heritage.
They love other Asians, sometimes even more than farangs. There Asian of choice is usually Korean, Japanese or Singaporean.
I was in Thailand 2 weeks before my friends so joined this site to meet up with girls and do stuff. I was honestly blown away by how many messages I was getting, I hardly use dating sites in the UK because I get one match every few days, on Thai Friendly I was getting 20-30 per day for the first week.
Hi
Is the passport photocopy in black and white enough to enter a club like RCA?
You can take a photo of your ID on your phone, that has worked before.
Hey man, I couldn’t find your book on the Amazon kindle to buy.
I found a good hotel near to Bts in sukhumvit 11 to stay. Do you think sukhumvit 11 a good place with lots of regular girls or you recommond other areas to stay? When I take a regular girl to my room in a hotel should I make aware the reception or just walk with her and ignore the reception?
Soi 11 is okay, there’s some hookers around there too but not as many as before. There are also many bars and clubs on that street. Your other option would be the Thong Lor area, more expat heavy. If the girl is from Thai Friendly there is no need to make the reception aware, just walk in.
Hey dude, That’s my last question about sukhumvit.
Is it ok to pick up regular girls from somewhere like Siam or Terminal 21 and take them to hotel in sukhumvit 11 or 4 ? Are regular girls ok with these area? Don’t Regular girls think a foreign guy who stay in these area is a sex tourist hunting for hookers? That’s not taboo?
Just don’t book your hotel in Soi 4 and you’ll be fine.
Even I wanna hookup with a foreigner for free
Do thailand women like african men?
Some do, not all.
I am an above average-looking 45-yr-old man. I have had a completed profile for about 24 hours, great pics, detailed information about me, I have reached out to a few dozen girls already, but I have received zero messages from any girls at all. What am I missing?
what time of day were you on? That is quite odd, usually you’ll always get a dozen or so messages within the first day or two.
Problem solved. Apparently it takes several hours after you complete your profile for it to be viewable by others. I now have more Thai women contacting me than I could ever possibly go on dates with.
Hey, any recommendations on Thai friendly? Weighing up the options of both.
Also do British born Indians get much joy on these?
Thai Friendly. And you’ll be fine as a British born Indian, expect to get like 20% less messages but other than that no real issues.
Thanks man. It seems to be working. A couple questions (sorry)
Some of the girls have messaged with a template of what they are looking for i.e. a serious relationship etc. I am obviously not and they are the better looking ones but is it worth trying to sway them or is it a waste of time?
Secondly, day game for a British Born Indian – is it worth it?
Just be honest and they may not care. I never tell anyone to lie to girls to sleep with them.
Day game will be harder for you because of your skin color, you can still do it and have success but you’ll strike out a ton. Bars and clubs will be better, or group venues such as night markets etc. It helps if you have a group of white people with you for social proof too, that will make things easier for you.
How do you think I’ll do? 27 year old, Light skinned East Indian origin guy born in Canada. Well dressed.
You’ll do fine, not as good as being white, but just upload nice pictures clean shaven.
Hello, i really like your website man. Im a soon to be 20 year old white male from a scandinavian country. Im a bit shy and skinny. Im planning a vacation in Thailand maybe with some friends. Will girls respond to me and wanna meet or even serious relationship or do they look for older guys like 25+ and are there many young girls on Thai Friendly like 18-21 year olds or are most of them older?
Dude, you’re going to be in the top 5% of guys given what you’ve just said.
Youll do ok but may attract the wrong type of girls, like middleclass killjoy girls with below average looks and often short height like 4ft10, who are using you to compensate for her lack of success with local boys but are ashamed to be one of the girls with “old rich farang” lovers. Those girls aim for young guys with below average looks, and youre it simply because you are skinny, asian girls dont like skinny.
And WHY are you skinny? Eat more, and more often, reduce fat and proteins because you feel full faster and takes longer to be hungry again. More carbs boy, potato vegetables and white bread, throw out that crappy dark whole wheat bread scandinavians eat just to fart more, normal food already contain all the fiber you will ever need. Oh and less water, drink after meals, not during. You will not get fat, weight gain in otherwise healthy men comes mostly as muscle, 3 months with my diet will give you trapezius muscles for the first time in your life, finally t-shirts will fit you over the shoulders. But be warned, its hard to est that much, dont lose your focus.
Now you will say you already eat a lot and always been skinny, and thats the proof that you need to try my way, 99% of skinny guys say they eat a lot, get out of the denial, you eat like a little girl.
Again, you will do ok as you are so if you want to keep looking like “i cant even lift” you can go on as before.
Hey thanks for sharing all the tips. Me, a Asian gal, and my partner, a British African, r going to Thailand for a week, I just wonder if Thai gals would be interested in meeting a couple? Generally are they open minded to bi people?
I am coming to Phuket and Bangkok with my very attractive girlfriend. We want to meet regular Thai girls for threesomes. What do you recommend. ??
It’s going to be way too hard and take way too much effort to find a normal Thai girl to agree with a threesome. For that reason, go with hookers.
Agreed, stick with the pros. If you have the money, you’re best using an escort service. Thai escorts typically have no problem with threesomes, but they are pricier. Some go-go’s, like the Airport Club in Pattaya seem to be more couple-friendly.
I am an Indian guy with above average looks and a clean skin. A doctor by profession and so far dated lots of Indian girls successfully. Kindly guide me how to improve my chances.
Don’t be sleazy and you’ll do fine.
Harvie;
I will be visiting Thailand in a week or two, for three to four days. Would this short trip be considered problematic for dating?
Jim
If you join before it should be okay and you’ll be able to date 1-2 girls, but not ideal if you want a long-term thing as you’re gone within 4 days.
First off I would like to say awesome blog! I had a quick question that I’d like to
ask if you do not mind. I was interested to know how you center yourself and clear your head prior to writing.
I’ve had difficulty clearing my mind in getting my ideas out.
I do enjoy writing but it just seems like the first 10 to 15 minutes are generally lost simply just trying to figure out how to begin. Any recommendations or hints?
Thanks!
I only write when I feel like writing, that’s the key for me.
Great blog. When I read your blog and the one from your colleague from singlemansparadise I always wonder why you seem so carefree about STDs. Do you consider the likelihood to catch somethine in Thailand so low that most people don’t use protection? Would appreciate your views and advise on that. Thanks
I am not carefree about STDs. I never advise unprotected sex unless you want to have children and you have both talked about it before hand. The chances of catching and STD are very low with normal girls, but I’d still suggest you use a condom always.
Where I can buy good cloth?
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I opened Thai Friendly but i cant send any message or if anyone sent me any message i cant answer.for conversation do i need to pay and upgrade?
You can receive messages and view profiles, but to send message and get people’s contact info such as their Whatapp or LINE you need to be a member.
What is a typical date like in Thailand? In the US, I try to meet the girl around 8 at a lounge/bar and get her back to my place later. Will that work in Thailand, or are there other factors I need to consider?
That is common if you’re a nice guy and don’t weird her out. Sometimes you need to factor in if they have work in the morning or other commitments which won’t make that possible.
Hi, I hope you don’t mind I ask. I am 47 yo european guy, not extreme good looking (white skin). I have two questions. First: I will I be able to get some attention on Thai Friendly ? And second: I am married and I don’t want my pictures to be public. Is there a way on the that site to keep your pictures private?
1. Yes you will get attention.
2. You need to create an account on Thai Friendly in order for your wife to see your photos, so unless she creates an account there she won’t be able to see you. I suggest Thai Cupid over Thai Friendly, much better.
Related to Herman’s question: How do normal Thai girls feel about married American men? I always prefer to be upfront about it early, will this be a problem?
Depends on their age. If they are looking for a real boyfriend with marriage later down the line, they will stop talking to you. But there are just as many who aren’t so boethered as long as you’re willing to show them a good time (i.e take them to nice places, treat them like they are your gf).
I’ve been reading your articles and find them very informative. Also, I’ve been looking at Thai Friendly and it seems if I want to find a quality girl maybe to take home I can search for a girl with at least a Bachelor degree and speaks very good English as requirements. I assume she wouldn’t have worked in the bars if she has the education. I was thinking we can communicate for a time and make plans to visit Thailand to meet her and she can show me the country or the highlights while we are getting to know each other. Or, you think it would be better to arrange to meet several girls to choose from? Not sure if they would like the idea of me meeting other girls … would they be resentful or understanding?
Both are fine options, do what you feel is right for you. If you do meet several don’t tell them that you’re meeting other girls.
Hey harvey what’s an amazing blog you get here!?
I love it.
I plan to go to Thailand soon with my gf.. but I wanna try some girl there in secret.
I’m French but with Asian heritage good looking arround 1.76m skin more white than dark do you think Will be easy for me. When is the better place for me?
Brothels are discreet.
Hey Harvie, we are planning my buddy’s stag trip in Bangkok and have a serviced apartment booked for 3 nights. Plan is to invite some girls over to party at our pad on the last night. How do you suggest we “find” these girls? Is it a possible feat to meet normal girls for 1st 2 nights and invite them over to party on 3rd night? How do you suggest we do this? Meet girls at the local club e.g. Route 66 etc? If this fails, how do we “rent” such girls? Escorts? Thanks in advance!
If you want it to be a sure thing and don’t care about the costs, contact a G club and tell them what you need and they will provide. Other options is to go Nana or cowboy and find girls there, but they can get mad/fiesty quick and turn your party sour. The dating sites will be a good bet but in your profile description state what you want and what you’ll give them in payment.
I would go with online dating first, followed by the G club if you have money, last option is Nana and Cowboy. Nana and Cowboy would usually be my first recommendation but over the years the service has gotten quite bad.
Hey Harvey,
Why do you think Thais prefer white guys to brown and black guys? I’m bi-racial white and black (but look brown lol) and this interests me
Yes they like white over brown or black usually. But that doesn’t mean you cannot meet girls if you’re brown or black, you can, they just like lighter skin (usually).
I like your blog and you give plenty of great info and advice. However, I have to disagree when you say that girls on the dating sites are looking for “White or Asian guys”. I’m not white or Asian and Iv’e had plenty good hookups on multiple sites with Thai, Chinese, Cambodian and Vietnamese girls through the years. In fact I keep in contact with them for future visits. Ok ok I’m done. Have fun and enjoy life. Ps. My name does not imply ethnicity, race or color…..or religion hehe
Hey Harvie,
Thanks for maintaining this awesome blog. I’m visiting Thailand for the first time and excited to see all the sites! I wanted to set up a few dates and maybe someone to show me around before I got there but don’t know the area. I’m staying near the Phrom Phong Station. Do you have any recommendations on how to find good places to take dates? Thanks!
There two malls right next to Phrom Phong station, and there are dozens of places to eat at all price points as you walk around that area. There’s also a park and two cinemas in that area that you cannot miss.
Would you really say that there is a line between ‘normal’ and other girls in Thailand? Or whole of SEA, actually? I am not so sure anymore. There are modifications, of course, but you HAVE to pay, one way or the other. Which doesnt really bother me anymore. But, nothing is really for free.
Btw, where is your older post about different types of farangs in Thailand? Cant find it, and used to enjoy it while in Farangland, waiting for next trip to SEA
Yes there is a line and if you be yourself and true, you can date normal Thai girls just like you do back in your home country.
Hey Harvie, My question is i’ll take a paid platinum membership then only i’ll be able to send unlimited message to members. what if other member are standard user, whether they can reply me or they also have to upgrade to platinum member. Plz do reply ?
Yes they will be able to reply on standard membership.
Yes they will be able to reply on standard membership
what are the chances of a brown indian guy?
Very good, just be polite and upload nice photos.
Hey Harvie,
A lot of useful information here!
Is it allowed to take a local girl to my room in every hotel?
Yes, there are no issues in Thailand.
Hey bruv, I’m a 23 year old Aussie with an Asian descent. I’ve always had problems getting along with girls – girls where I live are simply uninterested in dating an Asian guy. Some might laugh but having close to no interactions with girls is frustrating for me. I’m polite and have enough money for hotels and meals. Would it be easy for me to pick up normal girls using Thai Friendly? I’m thinking, like, every day if possible.
You’ll have no problem.
I don’t want to pay for 2 sites. So which do you recommend b/t Thai Cupid & Thai friendly?
Thank you in advance!
Thai Friendly is much better.
Hey bruh. My height is 4.6′. Indian.
Is it possible for me to pic girls from thai cupid dating app??.
Please reply eagerly waiting.
Yes some girls won’t care about your height if you can look after them.
How much do my chances with beautiful Thai women diminish if I have a beard? I think I’m prettier with a beard. I don’t want to shave it off.
You’ll be fine.
Do thai womens like white pakistani gux
sure.
I was sceptical about this article, but i made an account on thaifriendly, uploaded a few decent pics, but i had to turn off notifications for this app cuz i receive endless messages of girls that wanted to hang out etc. I’m western and a little above average looking, but i never experienced this kind of behavior of girls, not even in china where i lived and i speak chinese. You definitely need the premium account though imo, between $10-25 depending on how many months you subscribe
I have had contact with a few Thai girls, even a few physical dates. I’d say that their state of speaking “some” English equals to a few words. Do not expect a fluid conversation. But thanks to translation apps, it has worked anyway.
I had a good experience reading this website and trying out Thai Friendly app. I had been receiving emails from AFA (a foreign affair) for a long time with no success, and even after paying to respond to supposed email messages from girls who were specifically interested in me. I had my doubts and suspicions about all types of dating sites. But this gave me great surprise when just like has been stated here I received genuine private messages here, indications of interest, and polite messages from many girls of all sorts. It just takes some time messaging them with their Line App to sus out which type you would actually want to meet. I went with professionally looking “freelancer” and our first date was so tender, affectionate, calm, peaceful, and she is a kind and gentle sort. As are all Thai girls who aren’t go-go girls in the bars. I had much cheeky conversation with 25 year old using Line and Automated Translator that you can set up in a group chat with you and your lover. We went to Radisson Blu rooftop Brewski bar in the open air and it was magical. Very expensive beer and cocktails (which she liked) but I didn’t care. We drove my motorbike and she trusted me. We went to another Live Show (music not go-go type) in the first bar on the Soi Cowboy alley road only about 200m from Radisson. We danced and laughed and her English was good enough for us to enjoy talking.
Hi I was in Thailand in the 80’s and 90’ s, ther was no internet so you had to pick from bars and massage parlors. Never forgot the good sex. Will go there next month for half a year, what you recommend? I sure do not want to do girls of my daughters age.
Harvie, is it safe using my REAL name on Thai Friendly?
Yes.