Finding a Thai Girlfriend in Bangkok Nightclubs
Bangkok gets a bit of a bad rep for being full of hookers and ladyboys (which it is) but being a cosmopolitan city of 8 million people there are still plenty of places to meet normal chicks for the ‘girlfriend experience’ in Bangkok to get your self a Thai Girlfriend.
The following post was sent in by James Spillane, a Bangkok expat.
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Below is a subjective snapshot of the crowd you’ll tend to find at different night clubs in Bangkok.
All of the below require ID (20+) and have a smart casual dress code, i.e. trousers, closed shoes, no ripped clothing, and ideally a collar. In every spot you can return an unfinished bottle at the end of the night and use it the card for free entry in the next 30 days.
Tips on getting a Bangkok girlfriend in Thai night clubs
Early doors
Route 66 (on RCA)– a roughly 50/50 split of normal young Thai chicks with jobs, degrees, iPhones etc, Thai / western guys, thanks to the club being featured in Lonely Planet.
Thai girls gets in free. On the one hand at Route 66 you can blend in and Thai girls are not shy to talk to farang, but on the flip side there’s a fair amount of competition. Work the outside game to avoid heaving crowds on Fri / Sat night and the loud mainstream music. Nice place to find yourself a potential Bangkok girlfriend.
Pro tip – the vouchers that you get for the 300 baht entrance fee can be liquidity put towards a bottle, mixers, or ice, not your usual ‘1 free drink’ type cover.
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Slim (on RCA)– next to Route 66, with slightly more expensive cover and bottle prices, there are a few more Thai girls and less white guys to be found here. Again, hookers don’t apply their trade here and the Thai women are mostly biological females from birth.
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Model nights on Tuesdays bring in a lot of talent. When leaving with girls walk left and past all the taxi touts who want to take you to hooker-infested after hours spots they get commission at – on the main road flag down a taxi that’ll actually put the meter on. Another legit place to find a decent Thai girls.
Related: learn where to find Thai hookers in Bangkok.
Pro tip – Flix, the dance music room on the left, stays open after hours once the main hip hop room closes.
Funky Villa (Thonglor Soi 10) – a majority Thai crowd, with women way outnumbering heterosexual Asian guys. You’ll stand out, but will need to be on your game. Thai girls in these places are pretty hi so and often shy to be seen talking to farang because of the association with prostitution. Similar spots next door that people roll into after Funky closes include Demo and Safehouse. Pick up phone numbers for second dates and meeting up at after hour spots.
Pro tip– the 1k baht Smirnoff vodka bottle is one of the cheapest of any Bangkok nightclub, and admits 5 people in free.
Nung Len (Soi Ekkamai)– even more hi so than Funky Villa, girls seem to come here to be seen. Like a beautiful people’s club, prepare to fall in love every five minutes. Button up shirts and chinos are recommended. Freshen up for the pooyings and try to learn a few Thai phrases. A good place to start the night and walk around with a 160 baht beer. Bourbon street and Tororo sushi are some trendy spots on this soi (Sukhumvit 63).
Pro tip – If staying longer in a concerted effort to bag a hi so, arrive early, get a bottle and set up shop at a good vantage point in Escobar, the attached building with a DJ booth and more dance type music.
After hours Spots
Scratchdog (Sukhumvit Soi 20)– In the basement of the flashy Windsor Suites hotel, Scratchdog is a cosy venue with intimately small tables and plenty of eye candy. Being a touristy area, there are a few more farang and Japanese in the mix.
It’s much easier to meet and date girls in nightclubs than using Tinder in Thailand.
Bottles admit 5 people, the cheapest being 1.5k vodka, or the 400 baht cover gets one person a free drink. Shisha is also available to smoke at your table.
Pro tip – Some Thai bar girls do come here because it’s Sukhumvit, but they’re usually easy to spot lurking by the DJ booth and edge of the dance floor.
Wip 168 (Soi Thonglor)– Following the pattern, Wip is full of hot Thai girls and the good news now is they’ll be drunker, as Wip is an after hours spot, filling up from 2 to 6am.
With blasting house and techno music, the long rectangular grid of tables is perfect for doing the rounds approaching chicks. It can take 30 minutes to do a complete rotation, and with it being so dark people won’t notice you’re bouncing from girl to girl.
Girls in Thailand are much easier to meet than hookers in Hong Kong or women in Macau.
Pro tip– use the outside corridor to enter and exit the club at different strategic points with ease, and scout out the coaches near the bathrooms and food stands for victims.
An alternative way to meet girls is to use Thai Friendly to find yourself a bangkok girlfriend.
Related reading: read my article on how to meet girls on Thai Cupid and what you should know about Issan girls in Thailand.
I would suggest signing up now to see how easy it is. The first month is vital as you will get swamped with messages and it’s a great way to setup dates for when you land in Thailand.
Great post! It’s so refreshing to have some concrete information unlike other blogs that are vague on the specifics and just read like a Wikipedia article lol. Will be watching this blog for updates, for sure.
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Hi there I m here in babgkok if a nice thai girl under 30 interested to have fun time feel free to text back
Well good luck Dave.
Hey Harvie,
Hope you are fine and doing well, end of this month i am going to bangkok. so if you know some thai girl (s) under 30 for fun plz plz text me. thanks in advance.
Hi dave I like meet you. I bee friendly ladyboy! Where you meet?
I would definitely like to have fun with you..
I found this article on Facebook
I can just see the deluge of older guys thinking they can trade up to a, “good girl”
Not all of em are good- and you do have be kinda young or good looking- or at least dress and carry yourself well- and that may be problematic for the most of the guys that have been here awhile and too lazy to make the effort.
Once one gets his feet wet in Thailand for a few weeks or months, they understand everything much better, and as a result they can use there judgement to weed the “not so good girls” from the actual “good girls”.
I dont think age is a big issue either, there are still plenty of 30-35 year old Thai girls that work in legitimate careers wanting older guys. The gap between bf/gf in Thailand is much wider and more common than in the western world.
rather judgemental, Im not brad pitt but had many beautiful woman
you cant assume what a women likes
steve
life is short..have fun
I want to make a girl friend in bangkok
WEll read my site buddy!
I recently walked away from a marriage of 20 years after a prostitute from ibar in Pattaya persistently chased my stupid husband ringing him, sending him naked photos of herself – I found one of her fingering herself! She was only 19 at the time!
I can honestly say I have never felt pain like I did when it all fell apart. She knew he was married and he forgot he was married. She wanted a better life he thought he found a quiet & submissive love. Until, that is, I found out about the lies and deceit… That & hubby dearest couldn’t get to Western Money Union fast enough as he was too occupied with trying to keep me alive as I began to self harm.
I was in shock the dirty pig never once said he wanted to leave. She wasn’t getting her weekly payments anymore and out came her true colours. She tracked me down & told me exactly how, when & where they met and the astronomical amount of money he had sent to her & her family. I found out about her purely by chance and it was going on for 1 year. He is now himself in shock and pleading for his family to take him back. I lost over $40,000 to an ibar prostitute.
Her family in Khon Kaen, which my stupid husband visited bearing expensive gifts, knew he was married with a family. They were ok about their daughter breaking up my family. They have a brand spanking new bathroom courtesy of my money not to mention gold, motorbikes, phones and so much more.
I believe in karma and believe that for all the tears I cried it will strike those who hurt me 3 fold. The ibar prostitute moved on to her next victim 48 hrs after she realised no money was waiting for her at Western Money Union. She is now in the Chalong area with her current unsuspecting victim.
Are all Thais bad of course not. But prostitution ruins individuals in different ways. I am now a self harmer as a result of 2 selfish and hurtful people.
I am very sorry to hear that, but you should not let other people control how you feel that’s the trick. I don’t have any words of advise for you and your relationship with your husband, but you should go and talk to someone and get some sort of help for you situation.
Wish you all the best.
Hi and thank you so much for your kind words. I am on anti depressants and have family surrounding me. As for my marriage it’s over. It’s just the shock of trusting and loving only to be smacked in the face with the secret life he had in Thailand. I guess I’ll be ok.
Have a lovely day/night 🙂
Just interested for an update on this situation? I hope you have stayed strong and recovered at least some of your lost savings from your ex-husband!
It’s sad that these meaningless, empty, hollow and shallow girls will sacrifice all moral righteousness and respect for others/themselves for money. Is money really that important? Maybe I could never understand, sitting in my £1500 a month flat typing on my £1200 laptop. But I would give both up if the cost was somebody’s family.
all i have to say is it is thailand. I am married to a thai wife. we married in thailamd but i am from usa. I would have suggested doing what my wife did all the times I was in thailand. My wife told me on my first visit that if I even looked over at nay of the girls at the gogo bars she would cut my cock off. I believed her. Than she proceeded to lead me around Thailand with a firm grip on my nuts to make sure I and any girl seeing knew thbat my cock was hers. Even 8 years later when i last visited Thailand she still does this. It also helps me remember that my cock belongs to her only.
Hi Broken
I hope you manage to heal and move away from the grief you are suffering
you will grow from this
he wont
best wishes
\steve
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It’s so hard to heal & move away from grief I never knew was headed my way. My psychologist tells me it happens a lot in Australia – happily married men cheat in Thailand because it’s so easy and cheap and it’s not my fault.
Why didn’t he just divorce me if he was so miserable? Why throw your family away for a prostitute? Why does he desperately want us back now? So many questions I will never find the answers for :'(
Thank you for trying to make me feel better Steve.
I do hope that things are different for you now days
hi,broken,,,,,u kw life is not at all balanced as we wish to be. so please feel strong and do take care.things will be alright soon.u know in life people comes in our life to teach us lesson and leave us,but in return they also teaches us how we should be strong enough to handle ourselves.
take care and be good.
yours online friend
somwang
Hi Broken,
Life is full of ups and downs. Your reason for being strong and being the person you are is to be there for your family and friends. Look on the bright side of things rather than looking back with what ifs and what nots. Most importantly it’s not worth your energy or time. You are so much better than your husband who did not value his marriage or family.
There is nothing you did wrong in this situation. Whatever drove him to do what he did was his decision. Whatever you do from this point on is your decision. There is so much life has to offer rather than worrying or thinking about the past. Move on from this and be a better person, that’s the best karma you can have!
Regards,
Strength
In retrospect, don’t you think that you would be better off letting your hubby screwing around little bit and accepting it instead of living under the imposed hypocritical matrimonial values .I am a married, 69 years old man, married for too many years but trying to make the best out of it. I have my own share of screwing around and I don’t hide it. My wife has a lover and I do encourage it and in between we keep the family together and having our own good time.
You need to understand, for a man, the day that he wakes up with no erection, is a disaster. He feels like nothing, so your best bet is don’t let it happen too soon, even at the price of a younger pussy from time to time. Trust me, if you are open minded, you will be rewarded.
If god did want us to fuck, he would not give us the passion (no matter what the rabbis/priests/ministers and all other sacred tools say).
Your the stupid one for letting him go to thailand alone
I didn’t know he was going to Thailand. He told me he was on a work trip on the other side of the world. And it’s you’re not your so I guess that makes you “stupid”.
And what excuses would you have if the shoe was on the other foot? My much loved exwife, I married her twice, in my country and hers, told me, “Its my body, I’ll fuck who I want to”! Devastating to anyone who realy loves their partener!
You sound like a headcase – I bet over the years you took your husband for granted too and let yourself balloon!
Ah, the curse of the farang woman in Thailand – suddenly your vagina isn’t gold plated anymore!
Rather than wallowing in self-pity, get out there and do something about your state – your husband sure did!
Your husband probably didnt want to support her family but got slowly dragged into it by the girl, and from there its anyones guess what happened but i have met guys who actually enjoy having this second family, or they do it out of fear of losing that hot teenage mistress and then cant get out of it when the family start pretending they depend on him. TBH, those who enjoy it are often unattractive guys who in their sex deprived delusional state think girls are attracted to them because they are nice, i wouldnt expect a married man to be like those guys so if it is any comfort to you and ladies in your situation he probably did it only because he was exited with his young mistress, not because he wanted another family. And dont read the rest of my comment, its not morally or politically correct.
-To married guys in that situation, just cut lose and stop the money transfers today, there are plenty of girls in SE Asia who can give you a much better time on your next trip for half of the money you save, and some of these girls will want to stay in touch with you for free on LINE, Viber, iMessage/Facetime. Sometimes we meet great girls we want to keep because we think “im getting older, i cant find a girl like her again, what can i do to keep her?”. Well, first, IF shes gonna cheat on you she will do it regardless of money, which is why its almost ALWAYS wrong to send money. Second, you ALWAYS find a better one in time, there is always a better girl waiting to meet you, like the pretty freelancer who leave the money you gave her by the pillow and dont want to leave your hotel room, or the 18 year old girl who just moved to the big city from the provinces and want you to be her first and last customer, or so many others.
Now, if you start sending money to the first one you will not meet any of them. You can still give some money to pretty friends on occasions, its not a competition of being the cheapest charlie in town, just give money as presents instead of support, sending 20.30 bucks for a cute dress and a lunch in the mall is very different from having someone depend on you financially. And no single moms.
I will be in Thailand on 13 august.
Educated smart sexy girl friend for hook up. Knock me
Never mix prostitution with marriage in anyway, what ever you did on that business trip or holiday you took is suppose to end there, that’s why people say “what happens in vegas stays in vegas”
To bring with you what happened into your relationship or “regular life” like your husband did, is so wrong and shows a big lack of respect.
I think personally that cheating is wrong but I can understand it because we are humans after all with needs but to bring that into your relationship and let it effect the marriage, to keep contact or send money to the girl like he did, there’s no excuse for that.
I think that goes for both women and men, if my father or mother has cheated in their marriage I feel like they did what they did and that’s that, but if I would ever find out or if that would ever effect our family, then fuck no and fuck however did it.
We are humans with flaws and needs and i can accept that but to let that harm other people is wrong no matter what.
Hi Sven,
I totally agree. I don’t know what’s worse my husband having sex & falling for a prostitute or the deceipt of sponsoring her and supporting her entire family. We lost a lot of money to some prostitute in Khon Kaen. He was in the process of purchasing property too but they got busted and it didn’t proceed. Needless to say he is very grateful now as I got legal advice after she told me about he property and found out it could only be in her name not his. It’s the law in Thailand. This man is supposed to be the father of my child. He forgot he was married but forgetting he is a father is unacceptable. And all this happened while I was home thinking I was looking after my family :'(
I am hurting so badly. It never leaves me I ALWAYS think about how stupid I was to trust him. He realises now that a 20 year old prostitute took him for an expensive ride but it does nothing to help me.
I’ll never trust again.
Broken,
Your husband’s actions had nothing to do with love for another person. It was probably due to the fact that his own self-worth was significantly low and he found someone that would tell him things that he longed to hear, whether they were truthful or not.
As his partner, I am sure that you still loved him, but you were probably very truthful and realistic. Acknowledging the fact that you were both no longer 18 years old is normal.
The woman that used your husband and ultimately inflicted pain on you, was simply playing a game and doing whatever she could to provide for her family. To do this she played on his emotions and told him exactly what he wanted to hear to make him feel better about himself. I am very sorry to hear your story and I certainly wish you all the best.
I know he violated your trust, and I know that trust is the basis for any relationship. But please keep in mind, as you obviously know, this woman is a professional con artist that uses her words and body to manipulate men and get what she wants.
I wish you all the best please take care of yourself and you should realize that in no way is this your fault. When people betray people that they love, often times the victim blames himself and thinks they could’ve done more to prevent it. This is not the case … Put yourself first and take care of your mind and body. Good luck
ok so you were married for 20 years…how old was this child?
Thank you Mark. I really appreciate your response.
I wish I could be more like my ex husband. I, like him have no self-worth at the moment but unlike him I’m not harming anyone but myself :'(
Broken,
I feel your pain I really do. However, I believe you should turn your pain into power and NAME & SHAME that bitch. That’s right give her a taste of her own medicine a can of whoop ass!! Stop harming yourself, stand up and move forward. I know it’s easy for me to say but you deserve better. I know exactly how you feel the shock, pain, tears, loss and mourning of a marriage which ends suddenly.
It takes two to tango but as Mark wrote above SHE played with your husbands already lacking self-worth. I’m not saying he is not as fault he damn well is but Thai girls are vindictive jealous predators. She would have known good and well he was married but would have pursued him anyway. Sex means nothing to Thai women it’s just a way to get income and/or a Visa.
The same thing happened to me and I mean almost identical. Husband goes for a ‘work trip’ (yeah right) to Thailand and met a nice Thai girl who was from a good family (bullshit). She too was a bar girl from Insomnia and my naive dumb ass husband thought she served drinks for a living. Well when he returned from his ‘work trip’ things began to change slowly. A second phone, late nights at work, change in his appearance but I thought nothing of it because I trusted him. Then one day as I was putting away the assholes laundry , which I’ve been doing for 25 years, I found a SIM card in his sock drawer.
I put the SIM card into my phone to check what the number was and recorded the number down. I then put his SIM card back and rang telephone companies to find out if the number belonged to them. Finally JACKPOT one company said it was a pre paid account and the most called number on the account was a number in Thailand. Well I got the number and rang her. She made no attempt at hiding anything. I said “I’m his wife” she said “I know he is married but he doesn’t love you” and she told me everything my dirty dog husband had been up to with her. He had met her family in Khon Kaen too and even stayed in their home for a couple of nights. She and her family were living in the lap of luxury with money that belonged to the 3 children I had with my idiot husband.
You lost $40,000 I lost $100,000 and she too was from Khon Kaen. She told me they met in Insomnia club in Pattaya and that he was sending her $900 (Australian) every week! Well I made life hell for her.
After confronting my husband and confiscating the second phone I found naked photos of her along with her full name and home address …. I guess dip shit needed her details to send my children’s money to her.
My next move is as follows….
I Googled the closest Buddhist temple to her family home and printed out all the naked photos she sent to a stupid married man and mailed them Express Post to the temple.
While dip shit was recovering from shock that the love of his life would rat him out the way she did some temple in Khon Kaen was shaming the family with a home wrecking prostitute as a daughter 🙂
Oh and dip shit is renting a property down the road from our family home which I kept. On his knees begging us to have him back. Not happening anytime soon.
Please look after yourself and if you would like to speak to someone I am here for you.
Name and shaming does nothing. Her village most likely know what is happening and it’s not going to shame her one bit. Sending naked pictures to her local temple was a pretty low move too on your end, almost pathetic.
Your problem is with your husband and not the girl, she comes from a background where she has nothing, I am sure if you was born in her shoes there’s a good chance you would be doing the same based on her bringing up in that environment.
You’re focusing your energy and efforts on the wrong people. My suggestion would be to jump in a float tank and read my article on “how to get a good farang man” to understand your husband a bit better.
Your opinion on me being pathetic is just that your opinion.
I have nothing against prostitutes I understand not everybody gets an education, food, shelter so if it’s a way to make a living to put food on the table so be it. I do have a huge problem with prostitutes who ruin another woman’s family just to get ahead.
In this case you’re wrong because naming & shaming did wonders for me. My home wrecker including her brothers were run out of their village. Nobody employed them and they had to move to Bangkok for work. Yes the community knew she was a prostitute but when it was bought to light that her prostitution was leaving 3 children in a broken home they, unlike you, sympathised. The naked photos served as proof of her unrelenting pursuit. Hopefully she’ll think twice about sending porn images to another married man.
I understood my husband well it’s him who didn’t understand me. He never said he wanted a divorce and during his cheating with his Thai princess I was pregnant for our third child and it was him who wanted another baby. Why is it that each time a man cheats it’s his wife who didn’t understand her husband?
You hurt my children I hurt you it’s that simple.
As to your first few paragraphs, I find it highly suspect and I am pretty sure that never happened for several reasons which I have no time (rather don’t want to argue) to get into. You have already shown yourself to send highly sensitive material to a Buddhist temple. A Buddhist temple where monks are not allowed to be touched by girls never mind sent graphic pictures of naked girls. Even if they did receive said ‘pictures’ they would more likely than not be disposed of immediately.
Judging from that alone you clearly have some anger problems which I suppose is normal given your situation. I would try to find peace in all this and move on with your life. What happened has happened and sulking or making other peoples lives worse because what happened to you is not a way I would like to live my life.
Wish you and your children all the best.
I think you did the right thing, Harvie is right that you didnt really get a cruel revenge on her and her family but at least the feeling of doing something bad back was a well earned victory for you. Its also true its not nice to take it out on the poor girl but thats male logic and not female logic. From a female point of view you probably did the right thing and it sure made you feel a lot better. Well done.
obviously this is mostly on her husband, but i don’t have a problem with their being repercussions for fucking with someone’s family. call it kharma if you want. personally, i would probably just move on, but i don’t judge people who get revenge.
Sasha thank you for your words of strength and good on you for putting up a fight. As a mother I’m sure you understand it’s not about fighting for your husband but more about getting back at a woman who doesn’t give a shit about ruining a poor child’s family. Unfortunately I don’t have the strength to pursue anything the way you did. I really am suffering and I am focussing on healing.
Jim yes it is my stupid husband’s fault for falling for a con artist. In Sasha’s case I think kharma was served well upon the woman who ruined her family.
WIP 138 is closed till further notice for renovation.
Thanks for the heads up.
Very very intresting beautifully girls
Really soon will visit bangkok after
Seeing marvellous site……………
Don’t expect too much from Thai women in terms of conversation. I would say they are arguably the poorest conversationalists in the world. If you have spent any time here and then go to any other country you will know what I mean. They may look good but that is really about it. I dare say if you go out of Bangkok and you speak good Thai you will have more luck and encounter less superficial, materialistic and vacuous nonsense.
Hey Jim,
I think it’s mixed, depends on the clubs and bars you visit, some have poor levels of English while others are much better.
I like Asian girls
Maybe you got lucky mate, but I wouldn’t say there’s much gf material in the Bangkok clubs.
I’ve been through that crowd in RCA, Levels etc and while it’s very easy to get laid, 99% are absolutely useless beyond having sex that night. I’ve slept with maybe 20 from these places and only met 2 or 3 ever again. The rest are incredibly flaky, time wasting over Line and/or have sponsors and boyfriends overseas.
My new policy is to not get any numbers on nights out in Bangkok. Just keep it fun and look for girlfriends in other venues. No luck there so far though. Overall I find Sukhumvit girls to be hitting the carousel of farang cock pretty hard.
Hey, I’m not complaining about getting easy sex haha. But to be honest, it’s been pretty weird to almost never repeat with these girls. My knob isn’t that small. Honest! 😉
Hey Dreambig,
When you say “I’ve slept with maybe 20 from these places”, did you mean paid sex or getting laid for free?
The best way to meet nice Thai women is to sign up for Thai Friendly. Have a nice profile. Thai women like romantic guys. Don’t brag that you have money and if you have kids…Talk about it. They love family guys. If you are at least an average looking guy…you will get tons of messages. You will find a girl who will meet you at the airport and show you around Thailand. Try to find a girl who has a decent job. She maybe will help pay for your expenses. I have done this 3 times. Treat them with respect and they will be great to you. If you want a more serious relationship….this is a good way to start also.
Great article and interesting posts. Broken’s post about her foolish husband- it’s happened thousands of times. Phuket is a place I tell the first timer to avoid. I had a dream turn into a nightmare there, altho it didn’t involve hookers!
Sorry to hear of your pain and chaos. My brother swindled me out of 100 grand when mom died and I’ve lost 5-6 figures cash on girls here with more pending. Got to count your blessings. Even having turd brain for husband has been some fun and sex for years. I’ve just got dreaming and self massage and some paying for samples. Discipline your mind and set it on enjoying life and helping others and knowing the Lord who is gracious to all. Church sucks, but is great too. Try that for some big forgetting the bummers. Just what if the best is yet to come? Think of how noble your 3 beautiful children will be grown up to be and educated and working. Seems that should make for much honor and pleasure in your future. Overcome evil with good. We all have to do this.
PS Some of the girls over here are absolutely stunningly gorgeous and samples in the sack are cheap. Imagine Brad Pitt or whoever for you. Really. But for God’s sake keep a clear head! Money can’t buy real love. It’s found in character and charity.
Trying to keep a clear head is seriously not easy,
The hero complex of many men always spells their doom….
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Very sad to hear the stories of Broken and Sasha. I am also cheating my wife for thai girls. I promise I will not do it again. Thanks both of you!
Men have needs. Whenever i travel on work assignments, often staying for 2 to 3 weeks in either Thailand or Philippines, I need a bed companion. While i don’t support the girls financially, i often do take them out for dinner and shopping to get a couple of dresses/blouses for them before i take them to bed.
Hi, is there any news/updates regarding BKK bars and clubs to go to? 2018 now, where to go in BKK?
So tired of taxi drivers always want to drive farangs to Mix, Levels , Sugurclub etc, shit places if you want to meet local girls and not freelancers,
hey brotha any updates on 2018 ? i fly into BKK in march and i was absolutely wondering how much bottle service was, does it have to be vodka? is it like usa clubs where the bottle gets you a table as well or your own private area? best club for VIP?
-also idk if this will work in Thailand since i haven’t been yet but in 2008 myself (mixed African american ) and some friends flew into mexico, to boost the interest i bought VIP at club, then had my friends come in a little after, instead of having them sit with me i had them take pictures of me with the flash on and i autographed napkins and a shirt for them, why? because we wanted the girls in this club to think i was someone fancy lol . shit worked too. at first people just looked a little puzzled then after a few minutes someone of the better looking girls gravitated from the DJ area to dancing right in front of the rope to my booth . of course my new “fans ” ( my boys i came with ) sold the shit out of it taking selfies every so often to pass the star struck thing . to cover our asses i pulled up the pictures of a guy who played football and rugby with the same last name as i and it worked . we took 8 girls ( 2 diff groups of 4) back to our air bnb villa and ravaged them .
with that being said i may pay some local kids or a few guys to do this same thing there if you guys think it will work . i know the dangers of making yourself a target but in my real life im well trained in close quarters combat and dont see there being a need to be afraid here . let me know what you guys think and def post an update if you can sir .
Bottles are around 2,000-2500~ in clubs. Yeah not sure if that is going to work, I’d just be yourself and see what happens.
Adding my two cents will probably reach some but not others. Marriage is supposedly a vow made by two people.
Marriage is work. And when two people aren’t working to make it work, things tend to go astray. Your husband may have been lacking before marriage, but he definitely felt something missing in his marriage to seek sex/love or whatever it was in Thailand.
I don’t dismiss your pain and anger toward him. But, as the previous writer stated,
pushing that anger toward others is not helpful, and doesn’t change the situation. Quite possibly could make your life worse for sending such material to a temple.
I hope that you and your family are doing better and are making positive changes in your life.
Ahmen.
I am sorry to hear about your story Broken ans Sasha. But it all depends on what context is the cheating in. I am not defending your husbands and any men who cheat.
I am 40 years old and have been married to my wife for 8 years. We have 2 kids – a son aged 7 and a daughter aged 5. I have cheated and will always be cheating.
Since the birth of our daughter, our sex life is basically zero. My wife has lost interest in sex altogether. This has led me to get sex from somewhere else to satisfy my urge.
Since the beginning of this year, i have been posted to our bangkok office. We have decided that my wife and children would stay back at home as the move would be too massive for the kids and also my wife has got a job back at home. My company is kind enough to pay for up to 4 return airfares for me a year to return home.
I have been seeing a girl in Bangkok since late March. She works for the cleaning firm which cleans our Bkk office. I got to know her as i often work late as she was doing her cleaning. She is a young single mum aged 21. While i don’t financially support her directly, i do however look after them well. I often take her and her son (18 months) shopping, dining and weekend tripping. I have also bought a whole of toys for her son. She has never asked for money directly but from time to time i do give her pocket money. They don’t live with me but very often they would stay overnight at my place. I have set up a few rules for her:
1. I have been very brutally honest with her from day 1. I have told her that i am married and our relationship only last for as long as i am working in thailand.
2. When i am back at home with my family, she is not to call me. I will contact her.
3. If she gets pregnant without my permission, she will be out. I have provided her with contraceptive pills.
4. I don’t guarantee exclusivity. I may find another girl for one night stand from time to time. If she happened to notice used condoms, she should not be surprised and get jealous.
5. I don’t mind her bringing her son to meet me. But he cannot be used as an excuse for not be able to have sex with me. Distract him with tv programs/toys or let him watch us fuck.
We have been seeing each other 3 to 4 nights a week. The sex is really awesome and she has never once rejected sex or any position for that matter. My biggest caution is not to get her pregnant and hence i have been warning her of rule No3. If i ever found out that she is skipping the pills, she will be out.
If my wife would be able to satisfy me, i would probably not have this “2nd family”.
And for all the men out there who are cheating, you just have to be firm and strong. Set up rules and reinforce them. Do not let the girls take over control. Remember you are the one in control.