What I Know About Isaan Girls
Money means a lot of things to Isaan girls. How do you get money then? It is either by getting good education and after graduation is to get a good job that pays well, right?
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So what is my point in writing this article? I have heard many stories about middle aged farang men who fell in love with Isaan girls and all the prerogatives that come with being in a relationship with them.
Isaan Girls 101
Just a little bit of information to those who do not know. Isaan is a province located in the north eastern part of Thailand and well, women from there are called Isaan women.
They are shunned away from the country because of the region where they are born in and are considered as a second class citizen as well. So by nature, they actually don’t stand a chance against other Thais who are born and raised in the city or from wealthy families.
Related reading: find out where to meet the best Isaan girls in Khon Kean.
Some Isaan girls have worked in a go go bar (see the relation on how they meet farangs) and are always on the prey for foreigners or Westerners because they think of them as someone with big, fat pocket.
Poverty usually drives these women to work as Thai hookers and due to lack of education and their entire family depending on them; it would drive them to sell their bodies to men for some quick cash and if they get lucky, meet a farang who could give them money on a monthly basis.
So when their families see that amount of money they are sending back home, this is when their mothers would encourage to send more and this is quite easy to achieve when they met a foreigner who is quite stupid to fall in love with them up to the point that they will give them monthly allowance, etc.
Why Do Foreign Men Like Isaan types?
Well, for this matter I should say that foreign men do not like Isaan girls in particular.
I believe that they are into petite, dark-skinned or tanned girls because they find it attractive and this is how most Thai girls (Isaan women) look like. This is because you can’t find these types of women back home. I am not quite sure if Isaan girls find white men or foreign men attractive unless they have the money.
The Evil Behind Falling In Love With Isaan Women
I am not saying that you should not fall in love with an Isaan girl because I might be wrong if I claim that ALL Isaan girls are like this. Stories coming from men who have fallen trap to their bait are somehow still caught up in the web of deceit and lies.
See how it works is this way and it just goes over and over again: Middle-aged farang who have just come to Thailand must have seen paradise as they are welcomed by these beautiful, naïve-looking and deceitful Isaan girls.
Eventually would hook up with them after they have meet in a bar or somewhere “dirty,” relationship turns serious and in turn, the foreigner would have to ask the girl to stop working at the bar to prevent other men from gawking or touching her.
However, there is one condition – since you have asked your Isaan girlfriend to stop working then it would result for her to cease sending money to her parents, then the whole problem starts. Since you are the deciding factor for this career move, of course you would have to give her money on a monthly basis.
Then after your holiday in paradise, you would have to go back home but your heart and mind is wandering back in paradise where you have left your beautiful girlfriend.
Then you would get a mail from her saying something unfortunate has happened and their family would need some money in order to sort it out otherwise they will go hungry, etc. They will try to be as creative as they can be with their stories and you, on the other side of the world, willingly rush out to the nearest Western Union to send thousands of baht in order to keep your girlfriend and her family.
You do love the attention because I doubt that you get it back home. Isaan girls are willing to give you whatever you need, most especially in bed and they are willing to adapt to whatever your preference is.
As long as the cash is flowing, she will love you and her family will love you too. That is more than enough. When you hear the cliché, money can’t buy love – I guess in this kind of situation it is possible.
Is it still possible to find a Thai girl who isn’t after money?
Yes!
There are also great stories of foreigners who fell in love with a Thai girl who isn’t after their money. T
here are still women out there who can fend and support for themselves. Look through other places rather than dirty go go bars where you can only find prostitutes who sell themselves for money. You can look through great dating sites such as Thai Friendly or Thai Cupid.
Why online dating sites? Simply because there are still people or women who are looking for someone to date genuinely without any money involved. ThaiFriendly and ThaiCupid are just some sites where you can be able to filter out your search according to your preference so you wouldn’t be shocked with any unusual surprises or extra baggage they carry.
My own verdict:
This writing aims to inform men especially farangs who might be gullible enough to get caught into the web of deceit and lies.
I am also not saying that ALL Isaan women are like this, perhaps there are 1 or 2 in 10 women who will genuinely date you but only time will tell if they are just after your money or not.
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Biggest tip, bar girls or prostitute are only there for “leisure” purposes but I guess it would be safe to say to find a decent isaan girl whom you can actually date.
You are right about issan girls after money. I met a very pretty girl in a small bar on second road in Pattaya a few years ago her name was Jeab. We dated several times then she left her work there to spend time with me. I was giving her some money so she could take care of her two kids and herself. I was working in Australia 3 on 3 off so I could fly back to be with her quite a lot. I was sending her money (not a lot) every month by then. I took her travelling with me around Thailand and even to Bali once. We were pretty tight as a couple after 3 years and I considered her my best friend. We were even married in a little sacred ceremony in Maenam in Ko Samui. Little did I know she was dating another man and possibly more men, behind my back. I found out on Facebook with photos of the guy with her together and she was even wearing the clothes I had bought her. I never heard from her again after that trip to Samui. She cancelled her phone number and email account so I couldnt contact her and disappeared off the radar. No doubt the money I was sending her wasn’t enough.
Ouch, yeah you need to be careful, best not to meet girls in beer bars or anything like that to be safe.
key point is that u met a bar girl @ a bar. although there are girls there seeking true mate, there are also girls there waiting to win the lotto. unfortunately u met the latter. better luck next time and may I suggest to stop looking for love in the wrong places?
I am the Lucky one then and met in a small isaan city, where there are 6,7 farang and farang couples farang who are there 30-35 years and i hope to be one of them, almost two years a relation and she and family very polite and caring to everybody and well educated.
Rubbish to the op…if your a retard with women back home..then your retardness will last a little bit longer in isaan….ive had an isaan chick for four years…still going….shes hot ..slender..and no caucasian trollop can tie her shoe laces….you talk about money in isaan LOL…it cost you 10 times as much back home…isaan food and people are 100 times better than western…no laws..no helmets ..licences..drink in public…everythings cheap…if youve ever made love to an isaan chick..fuck me…youll never go back….i swear man its the best feeling ever…sawadeeka!!
…….sawadeekrup???
You are so deep and philosophical James Bond. A man of real substances. As well as venting your great knowledge in retarded people you have a great wholesome relationship with a woman/women that will obey your every command.
KARMA is a good way of describing you get what you deserve and you are currently endowed with your best asset…….MONEY not your dick
AHHH to be such an Anarchist.
Only a fool for a business man can write such bad thing about country girls from Thailand. Country people in Thailand are more popular than southern Thai. You’re a sour man and needed to stop be shallow and learn more about the history. And girls world wind aren’t all that just some are more retarded and others. Peace off!
I’m from the country and pround! Perhaps you should remove that hate naked picture off your website to how many men gonna your website.
love the Isaan Girls…always go to the north-east of thailand, great food….very beauityful area, and the girls are so sweet and always look after me…..not just sex…..but food, learning about thailand
So many have said this, seems if you find one without a bar they are great to be with.
Hi, I am agree with Paddy.
There are still a lot of good Thai ladies that can really give you genuine love relationship without really involving money…all depends on you! I mean do you meet the lady at the right place?
A lot of Isaan girls get tarred with the same brush. Of course the bar girls from Isaan that work in Pattaya and Phuket and Bangkok are hard women. That have to be to survive. Who can blame them for trying to get as much money for there families back home as they can. I know women from Isaan that are the most lovely sweet women you could ever wish to set and I would have them any day over the selfish, rude and spoilt western women I have encountered the bet part of my time in earth.
Money? Isnt that what we all want? When Thailand pays average salary 300 baht who can blame them, it’s the farangs that are being played and good on those girls for earning money.
I’ve been with my Issan girl for 5 months, luckily I work in Thailand so have seen really what she is like. Pisses all over western women, really cares for my health, wants me to eat healthy, shares a bath with me, sits on my knee and talks a lot. Cooks for me, And yes the sex is amazing, really is. But it’s her smile that wins every time. Is she scamming me for money, who knows, but always keep some of your heart back for yourself. And keep all your money in your home country / bank, and dont tell them everything about your business. I also met her family so think she could be genuine, but still being very cautious.
And with all that in mind, what’s the difference with Western women? Most are driven by money, or at least a nice quality life, arent we all? Isn’t that the same as Issan girls? A chance in life to have something better. And let’s not forget buddhism who ingrains respect for your parents, and taking care of them when they are old and wanting the best for their children. No different to Westerners.
Really pisses me off with all the bad press they get, but doesnt piss me off as bad as the fat badly dressed westerners they have to pick from. Shame on those guys…
Good post PJ, good luck with your girl.
I met my Thai wife when I was 21 (together for 20 years now) on a Thailand stopover for R & R whilst on an Asia deployment… Got married 8 months later and she knew from the start I didn’t have money. She’s not from Isaan luckily but from the North.
Now, most of what’s written here is true. My wife and I know quite a lot of Thai ladies locally (not living in LOS) and most are from the place the article is written about. And I can say that most are a train wreck waiting to happen. I have even been told directly by some of them that it’s all about money and that they usually have several guys on the go at any one time and cashing in.
The funny thing is that it’s like most of them have split personalities from what I’ve seen. They can be reserved and traditional and then totally crazy to the point of violence. They don’t know how to handle money and that is the root of all problems. Once they and their families become dependent on financial support they need more and more and will do just about anything to get it. You may find this harsh but, most Thais aren’t that well educated and it shows. Although, I think things are changing slowly.
If you’re just looking for a good time and have a bit of cash to burn and know how to avoid the traps then go for it.
Thanks for the post Adam, nice to see a story of it working out, hope you and your wife enjoy the rest of your life together.
so what would your advice be guys on this,im on that thaifriendly site and speaking to a girl who is 30 yr old shes from buriram she seems nice enough.she is a single parent..now i dont have any problems with that.when i first messaged her i said what you looking for ..and she had a go at me saying she doesnt drink smoke or work in a bar.she has her own shop and sells noodles.i said sorry new to this site ect..then she said sorry but hates the way westeners expect sex abd stuff.anyway we been trading pictures and having great convo..my trouble is ive never been to thailand..i havent got loads of money n i defo dont want to live there..should i pursue or give it up ..
Best thing is to be honest and say you’re only here for a short-time or however long you are and she can make her choice.
Hi,
How was your story going on?
This website is a classic representation of what everyone hates about foreigners in Asian. The day Asians like Thai and Filipinos get rich, the women won’t have to debase themselves for your pleasure to earn a buck. The position that this author takes is inherently unhelpful to empower the women and the people of this country as his philosophy is to empower his foreign counterparts, contingent upon the disempowerment of the Thai women.
The fact is that this author could not survive in his home country as someone successful. The people following him are attracted by failure and a way to shortcut the normative system in developed country. And so he insists on living a life where he scrapes enough – an abysmal amount – so that he can get pissed, get women and recycle. There’s no growth. There’s no empowerment. There’s no fucking point is there Harvie?
Maybe if you had a night out at Bangkok and you want a taste of the forbidden, it’s fine to follow what this man is saying. But it is irresponsible to buy this guy’s book and think this kind of life is fucking okay.
“buy his ebook” – did you just assume my gender?
Whoa. I was thinking about traveling and visiting, but you folks are scaring me. Haha. They’re a good women everywhere. One just has to use common sense and hopefully the love of gods are looking out for you.
Thanks. I enjoy your positive comments. I believe it is a money thing for her and for the family. My girl works in a bar and Is bar fined out from the bar. I’m in America and married. I cant expect her to wait for me or be celibate for me unless I make more of a commitment to her and I want to. She is a great girl and I enjoy her company. She is a fantastic sex partner. Wants me to come and take her from the bar. I’m working on it. I feel she is worth it.
My Issan Girl is my soul mate. We love each other. I have been through some heart break with her but we have worked it out. I met her when she was 27 and she is now 34. She is the most exciting women I have ever known.
will see still love you when you money gone
I know one for 7 months and it’s not me giving money but her providing me with everything. I must me one of those lucky one ? Not only that but many friends find the same kindness amount Isaan girls
My recommendation : Even if she works in a shop massage. Don’t worry, many of them doesn’t even like their job and would be happy to live with you with or without money. Unfortunately, As anything in the world and not specially related to Isaan girls or Thai girl, money is important for them as well as for you and if love and tenders are the only things they can offer then go on and embrace this relation.
l don’t believe you she not want your money were did you meet this lady any way
Every country has omen, and men, who are unfaithful. My own experience of an Isaan lover is wonderful. She is married with a daughter. Her family lives in Thailand. She works in India in a traditional Thai massage spa. I have had her as a lover for a year now. I too am amrried; so, we are both cheating. She is more than 30 years my junior. So, I am one of those dirty old men who prey on nubile girls.
I have never met a girl who is more spirited, honest, considerate, brave, hard-working, intelligent and beautiful. Every time I inter-act with her she astonishes me with another wonderful quality. Yes, she has received a lot of money and gifts from me but she has received them from my own free will. Without doubt, I have been the gainer in the exchenge. I dread the day she will return to Thailand and I will lose her; even if I save money in the bargain. As for the sex – others have spoken and I can only endorse that. But, at my age, sex is not the primary motive. Its having the company of the most wonderful girl I have ever met. And I have met many in my near 70 years.
I met My Issan Lady on Thai Cupid and we have had a wonderful relationship for the past 2 years. She owns a Salon in a major Issan City and is becoming very successful at it. When I met her she had a little daughter from another older Farang 2 years before me. The guy cheated on her so she left him. I have met her whole family and they are all wonderful people. I am older than her but that is no big deal as she really like guys older than her. She told me she finds younger guys immature and less into monogamous relationships. When she told me that I chuckled and reminded her about her last relationship. She replied older guys are just her preference and it shows she can carry on a conversation with me very easy and we have a lot in common. I have met women in the world just like this lady they like older guys too but they are not as loving (even the little ways) and as caring as her. To say that I am smitten on her after 2 years would be an understatement if things keep going as they are now I will ask her to be my wife in 2019. This lady is not a bar girl she was raised by a farming family that later got factory jobs. She is Beautiful, strong, hard working, fun, loving, caring a great mom, aunt, sister, daughter and eventually my wife. The authors comments on Issan women are from his own opinions and no fault to the author but as we all know good and bad opinions are something everyone has. I can not tell you about all Issan women but I can tell you I have traveled all over this world both for business and vacations and people are the same all over. No matter what country, city or province your special lady is from if you find a Good women that touches your heart and you touch her heart (and you will honestly know this when it happens) then you should plant your flag, be happy and stay with her forever. I will agree that dating bar girls only will decrease your success rate at a happy life by a certain percentage but even here there have been some success stories it is just that they are harder to come by. I am not a professor or author on all women or Issan Women, I am just a normal western guy who has been lucky enough to happen to have fallen in love with a Beautiful woman from Issan and will be happy the rest of my life together with her. Good Luck To All.
Good luck!
Hi everyone, I planing a trip to western street to met isaan girls, and then I will marrying her if I am Lucky guy… what should I do?
The ferangs who have met issan girls and been hurt have mostly met these girls whilst they have been working in a bar. The girls are only doing a job but idiots fall for them and think the girl loves them. Of course they are going tell you what you want to hear.why would a 20 year old girl be interested in 60 year old ferang other than seeing him as a way of supporting her family. If you want to meet a genuine thai girl get out of Pattaya and Bangkok and explore Thailand. I met my girl in issan before she had chance to experience the gogo and beer bars of Pattaya.im 35 she is 21. Perfect age gap in Thailand.
Your rationale is spot on. But there is a reason for the saying, “Love is blind.” Insulting guys by calling them idiots just adds insult to injury. Guessing you don’t care, which is the reason for your careless words. But try to go easy, mate. No matter how it happens, foolish or not, no one appreciates being lied to or used, especially when it comes to the investment of their time, money, trust and love -peace out.
I learned this the hard way. Thankfully, I didn’t send money. As soon as she, Kat at the K&S Bar in Sukhumviet 4 near Nana Plaza, told me she had a guy in California who was too old for her, but sending her money, I started asking questions. She became very hostile and defensive. But, I admit, after staying with her at her condo many nights and meeting some of her family, I broke the cardinal rule and fell for her. She talked about a future, taking me to Issan to meet her parents. She was the most accommodating woman I have ever had the privilege to be with. She knew exactly how to maintain innocence, while deceptively drawing me to her for the purpose of taking more and more money. She is very smart. Do not be deceived. There is a reason this post strikes a chord. It is painfully true. I dont regret my time with her. I regret trusting her. Again, this isn’t retribution. It is a warning. Kat at K&S Bar in Bangkok is a wolf in sheeps clothing. Have a good time, she is amazing. But DO NOT believe her or allow your heart to be lured by her. She is exactly the type of Issan bar girl you want to avoid, as described in this artcle. I learned a valuable lesson, May 2019.
We all live and learn.
its very hard not too fell in love with bar girls they are very good at they job l fell for bar girl in Pattaya in June as soon as got back home she was asking for money telling lies about other girls stealing money off her l sent her money once she met some one else blocked my number even had the cheek too give another girl my number got talking too her wasn’t long before she asking for money for her sick kid and she wanted big gold now the lady l fell for has unblocked me on whatsapp l will never fall in love with bar girl again l don’t blame her she’s only doing her job too get money for family
If you don’t look for love in bars, strip clubs and brothels in your own country why do you think it will work in a foreign country? All the videos I see on the Tube about bad experiences in Thailand happen in either a bar, strip joint or brothel. Duh.
We are all here to learn something. Try to respect one another. Thank you to the creator and person who maintains this site. I have benefitted as a result.
Sometimes I just feel alive and breathing life when being cheated on. Even if I dont enjoy it, obviously. But I do forgive. Maybe cannot forget. Am a sinner, too
you sound as crazy as me good luck mate
I’m from Isaan as well. I don’t think that it’s only Isaan girls if they want your money it could be every parts of Thailand. Why Most people talked about Isaan girls because Isaan is the biggest part and that’s why most people always meet Isaan girls in every parts of Thailand. It would be good if you don’t mention Isaan girls. I’m very upset about that but i could understand that maybe some of you got bad experiences. I had meet western guys but got many bad experiences as well. Anyway, the right person will come in the right time.
Hi, why no comments after June 27th 2020? I find the comments interesting and educational prior to traveling to Thailand. Do people from Thailand even like foreigners?