The Internet is a very valuable resource, and as I have echoed throughout my blog posts, meeting Thai women using dating sites is by far the best way of going about it. Using Thai dating sites is easy, less stressful and obviously less awkward. Plenty of local Bangkok girls on there.
I have recommended a few Thai dating sites on my site, and gone in some detail about what you can get out of them in regards to meeting women.The best one being Thai Cupid where you can get normal Thai women come straight to your hotel or condo for free! Thai Friendly is okay too but I like Cupid more as it has more girls.
2. Shopping malls for the Thailand women
When did Thailand get so many shopping malls? I remember the first time I was in Thailand back in 2012, every time I got lost I found a new shopping mall. I can’t complain though, they always have air-con and have a lot of sexy Thai girls inside.
The clothing shops try not to hire ugly Thai women from what I can see, they always seem to be above average looking. What? Am I saying Thailand is a country that discriminates people based on their looks? Don’t be silly, that doesn’t happen in Thailand.
So yes the malls are a great place if you want to go and meet Thai girls, if you visit malls such as Central world or MBK in Bangkok. Their is a great chance that the Thai girls will be speaking Tinglish if you visit the touristy malls. Compare this to places like Union mall, where you will need to grasp basic Thai to get by.
3. Thai Night clubs
Hot off the presses!!! You can meet women in night clubs, who would have thought it? Just halfway into my well thought-out list and you can start to see its not rocket science to scope out places to meet Thai women now. Take for example the Bangkok nightlife scene, it is littered with numerous bars and clubs packed full of Thai girls, the reason is because women get in for free in most places.
Just remember to dress sharp, as some bars and clubs don’t allow you to enter if you are wearing flip flops or a singlet.
Thai people love their food and will eat out on a daily basis. Just like going down the local back in England, visiting a night market in Thailand is the same for Thais. It’s a great place to make friends with local and stare and every Thai women that walks past your table as you’re noshing down on a greasy pad Thai.
I used to frequent the night market in On-nut (not above) where I ate a lot Thai street food loaded with MSG and questionable oil. One time I was eating and a waitress handed me a number on some scrap paper and pointed to a Thai women on the other side of the market, said it was from her. I found out later the number was actually of a ladyboy thanks to my friends sharp eye, but hey it’s as easy as that!
5. Tourist places for Thai Women
Now I’m not talking about the floating markets (puke) or going to the grand palace. But rather places were Thais go for vacation within Thailand. Places such as Hua Hin or Khao Sok which is one of Thailand biggest national parks.
These types of places to me feel more real than the canned experience we as farangs get in the busy towns such as Bangkok or Phuket. Some of these places can be a hot bed for meeting and making friends with Thai women and locals in general. I hope this post has given you some wisdom on where to meet nice Thailand women.
6. Make Thai Friends
An awesome way to meet women is to make Thai friends who are guys. I find this rather difficult since most of my social circles are farangs and I speak very little Thai. Having Thai friends who are guys provides you more social proofing and allows you to network in areas you may otherwise not have been able to.
How to make Thai guy friends? Well going on websites like Meetup are a great way to get involved in group outings and stuff. I don’t have any Thai friends because I am to lazy to make any, but if you want to open yourself up to a new class of women, it’s a good shout.
This applies more to Bangkok than the other major cities in Thailand. It seems every other week there is some sort of festival or event happening in a shopping mall or park where huge amounts of sexy Thai women all come together to enjoy it. Even the Bangkok Farmers’ Market has a nice mixture of girls and western farang girls attending each week. It’s a nice event where everyone is relaxing, having a good time and being friendly.
Join one of the several Bangkok Facebook Groups and you will see events being posted on their daily from pool parties to music festivals full of hot girls.
Different types of Thai women
Now you know where to meet them, you should also know the different types of women living in Thailand. Here are the main 4 categories.
This will be the type of women you will meet most of the time. She is a girl who works a regular job, usually works too much and doesn’t earn enough. Her English can be from good to mediocre and she’s a pretty decent girl.
You will find these types of women everywhere, mostly on dating sites.
2. Hi-so girls
Hi-so Thai women are a bit harder to find. They tend to shy from meeting western guys because they are very rich and we offer them nothing of value. A hi so is a women from an important family who have money.
They will not hang around the regular bars and clubs like RCA or Levels, but head to more classy events and fashion shows. Some do have their head stuck up their arse and think they are the shit, while others are more laid back and down to earth.
Party Thai women are also known as ‘gold diggers’, while they don’t straight up ask you for money, they will want to be wined and dined like a pretty women. They are usually easy to spot, they never pay for anything and tell you what to buy them or even suggest lavish holidays to go on (paid for by you of course).
Biggest cities to find the best women
Thailand is actually a big country for you to find a Thai woman that would suit you taste and preference but if you’ll just look for them in the right place, you can definitely find one. Thais are indeed a great kind of people and if you would visit your country, you would surely be in-love with everything that is in there and that includes their ladies.
Bangkok – I know Bangkok is a known city in Bangkok for hookers and party people but if you’ll just focus in the other side of the city, they also have a lot of decent Thai women to whom you can choose from. As Bangkok tourist demand, there are already a lot of establishments within the area thus, Thais are now into finding a job in this city and these ladies are the one should be focusing about and not those in the bars and clubs.
Chiang Mai – aside from a having unique culture city within Bangkok, this beautiful city in Thailand is also known one for having well-to-do families and decent Thai women which gives you a chance to find the right girl for you. If you were able to meet a wealthy family from Bangkok, it is noticeable that they do choose Chiang Mia for their 2nd home and this city also offers lesser cost of living compared to Bangkok.
If you are finding for the perfect timing to go to Chiang Mai for women hunting, you may want to take advantage of their ‘Chiang Mai Flower Festival’ in where a lot of Thai women are on the streets celebrating the festival and it would be a great opportunity for you to find the perfect girl for you.
Phuket – if you are looking for Thai women who speaks English greatly, you can go and visit Phuket for the city do offers great women and you can actually notice how universities in Thailand throws interns in Phuket because of their good communication skills.
Phuket may be a small city in Thailand but you can still find a lot of Thai women who prefers to work and seek for a job in the city because of the number of prestigious and high class hotels and resorts spread all over the place. The city has also their own festivals in where you can find Thai women strolling over the roads of Phuket.
There are actually a lot of places in Thailand in where you can find pretty, great women and yet a decent one. You may also want to try the cities of Pattaya and Udon Thani who also have a lot of Thai women for you to choose from.
6 Tips You Should Know When Dating Woman from Thailand
The below was written as a comment for this article and I’ve just added it here:
Be a Gentleman – I guess not just the 1 do loves a gentleman and as ladies, it is a big factor to them if the guy is a pleasant one. Even though Thailand has been into a bad rep as prostitution goes around the country, 1 do still give a big importance when it comes to their values and traditional roles.
Be Realistic – once you go on a date with a Thai woman, be realistic and honest. As Thais follow their culture and traditions it has been typically for them that once you go to Thailand to meet one of their ladies, then you have to meet her family afterwards also and if you aren’t looking forward and ready for this, so you might not ready to date a Thai woman yet.
Avoid Unintended Insult – as you go visit another country it is recommended if you will have a little research on that country’s culture and rules first. There are already a lot of instances in where a person was able to insult others without them knowing that they are already doing it and that’s because of culture differences. When you are dating a person with other beliefs, you better know how things go with them to avoid conflict and unintended insult.
Make an Effort – 1 are actually conscientious with the overall physical appearance of the person they are dating and refer a guy who is a well-groomed and clean one when it comes to their dates. Well, who doesn’t, right? Aside from being neat and clean, a mild aftershave and cologne would also do. Once you go on a date, being prepared is indeed one of the keys for a good first impression.
Play it Smooth – if you happen to date a Thai woman, you sure is dating a beautiful one for Thais are indeed great people inside and out but we should also remember that as we date them, we all have our limitations thus, we should play smoothly and as much as possible, avoid being too aggressive. Thais have a lot of values and that includes being reserved and conservative.
Make Arrangements – when going to a date with a Thai woman, it is an important factor that you choose the right time and place for your date. A typical Thai woman would refer a restaurant or any formal place for a date and not those bar or clubs which would make them feel cheap and undervalued. I guess a little effort on finding the right place for your date wouldn’t cost you that much.
As a large number of 1 are being used for prostitution and such, they are now having a bad rep for foreigners thus, it is a bit hard to give trust on them but we also have to bear in mind that we don’t have to generalize Thai woman. Just like with other ladies from other countries all over the world, we can also find a decent one here in Thailand; you just have to go to the right place and have patience.
Another type of party girl is one that actually loves to party. These Thai girls will go out 3-4 times a week, get drunk and probably know a lot of guys. While this type of women is great for a short fling, she is not girlfriend material.