Becoming an Ethical Whore-ist in Bangkok
Yes there is such a thing as ethical whoring, while this guide focuses on Bangkok you can take the main principles and apply them to almost any city in the world.
So children, let us begin.
What is ethical whoring?
Ethical whoring is much like a Bitcoin transaction, there are no middlemen involved and both parties have agreed to the transaction without the input of others.
Transactions are untraceable and there is no institution taking a % of the deal.
In a nutshell, you’re paying for sex and your chosen girl has full choice on whether she wants to sleep with your or not, and does not answer to a pimp or mamasan.
Luckily in a place like Bangkok, ethical whoring is quite easy when you know where to go or what to look for.
Is ethical whoring a real thing or did you just make this shit up?
Not all prostitution is bad or as you see in the media.
Most of these girls in Asia are just tryna get per-per-paaaid.
Good business girls make over 60,000b per month and the best ones can make as much as 250-400k per month.
Some can work in ‘normal’ jobs and make next to nothing but they prefer to do this because they want to get lucrative.
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Great article! I like to think of myself as a Gentleman Whore-ist! There are some amazing ladies that freelance as they need the money and if you are nice to them they will be nice to you. You mentioned Climax and Insanity which are great fun but start later. Thermae is the strangest place on earth but the choice of girls is vas, though a lot do prefer Asians. I hear that the Beer Garden is better now and of course there are the freelances on the street. Where can you find slighter higher level Freelancers? Oskar’s, Above Eleven on ladies nights/ Any other suggestions?
Keep up the good work!
Mixx or Ce La Vi in Silom are good choices. I guess you could also go to G clubs but many girls don’t have a price so may not be that ideal.
Using no condom is unethical if the girl says to use one and said monger refuses. Some girls prefer no condom. Soi 6 girls by night time have had alot of sex. Condoms can hurt so if you take them overnight they NEVER want condom.
That is true that some girls don’t like a condom but many aren’t clued up enough on the risks of doing so. I always advise everyone to use a condom when paying for sex.
If a working girl doesn’t want to use a condom how many other customers has she done that with? Not something anybody should risk.
“If a working girl doesn’t want to use a condom how many other customers has she done that with?”
I only bang the young ones so shes had no condom sex with less people then me most likely!
Come on y’all, keep it real! If you are in Thailand, having sex with a P4P chic, a condom for vaginal and/or anal sex is a MUST!?!?!! The ramifications of not doing that are unthinkable…..and the unthinkable WILL eventually catch up to you if you are unprotected. Good luck & be safe!
true. good job.
lol young ones are the most in demand and thus do more sex. you thought you were the only one thinking like that? the most important is not how many she had in her life , but how many she gad that week. say, before cthe symptôms let themselves know.
Remember 1% people in Thailand has AIDS. And most of them work in sex.
They control girls in clubs, but there is no control with freelancers.
Lol no they don’t you dolt. Around one percent of the population is estimated to have HIV which is not yet AIDS. At least know the difference if you’re gonna talk shit.
1% my ass who told you that BS
So you are a asshole because you risk the life of that young woman. Not only your own…
Normturner,
THAT is exactly the “logic” that keeps spreading HIV/AIDS in Africa.
Someone invented the saying the if an infected man has I/C with a virgin, than his infection will get healed.
So they even rape them, and the former virgin gets infected because of the bleeding.
Or am I not spotting sarcasm in your posting?
Great blog post. I never considered the concept of Ethical Whoring. Food for thought. But I always knew human trafficking is wrong and so is Shoring. I would never want to sleep with a woman against her will. But like you pointed out, 95% of women in Thailand arent being trafficked or forced into selling their tight little snappers. They do it for the easy money. As for Shoring, that is plain wrong. If you pick up a freelancer at a nightclub like Climax or Mixx and she goes back to your room, she obviously isn’t doing it for free so she should receive money for her time. Once a price is agreed on, then she should be paid. Guys who do Shoring ruin it for the rest of us cos now many Mamasan’s at GoGo’s want you to pay them the girl’s fee upfront to make sure this won’t happen. But downside to paying first, is girl is less inclined to put on good performance. They also still expect an extra tip too.
Good advice there GSM.
I second your points GSM!
At least at the time you wrote it, the unemployment rate of Thais was less than 5 %.
By far, most woman who wanted to work not in the AE industry was free to do so!
(Some were forced by relatives, or by claiming to have debts to do so. Or because they want to get to know a rich falang.)
I am in a quandary: ethical whoring, or gentleman whoring, or something else? Here are my standards:
1. Check age. Double check age. I prefer older and I still check IDs. I do NOT want virgins!
2. Wear a FUCKING (redundant) condom! I love hearing when she say “No need for condom.” and I reply “ Yes….to protect you and me.” She will be more affectionate after that, IMHO.
3. If there is ANY hesitancy on her part, walk away. I want a consensual partner; there are many fish in the sea….cast for those who want to be caught. Sometime I try “Catch and Release”…ask for one who is obviously very distracted and uncomfortable….pay her bar fine, and release her into the wild….maybe after a little talk and discussion.
4. Be kind to rookies. I once had a rookie gag and throw up during a blow job. I really had no idea she was THAT new, but it made sense. I do not want hard core veterans, so I better be prepared for the absolute novice. I was compassionate and not angry. It was one more story to tell, NOT in anger.
Do you think I am a dolt? haha I welcome any and all responses.
Perfect advice Steve, if only everyone could follow this!
Is Thermae open over Songkran this year? Seems like if its open there won’t be as many girls
It should be open, and yes there will not be as many girls but that’s for everyplace.
I have heard about availability of Russian free lancers as well. Most of them hang around Rajah hotel. Is that true incase if u have experienced it?. Also if you have then do tell me that are they cheaper then a thai free lancer? … Thank you
Russian hookers are not cheaper than Thai hookers in Bangkok, they are 3-4 more expensive. I think they are from Ukraine and not Russia, they are also more likely to scam you.
The big element in this as you said is consensus and that the girl is clear in her own mind that she is OK to go with you. Anywhere there is an element of coercion is dubious in terms of the ethics.
I do the same as you suggest – I always find a girl who is making an effort to get me to pick her and then chat with her a bit to check she is relaxed and we are clear on the price. This approach has usually worked well for me with good experiences and a good price. I think a lot of guys have a bad and expensive experience because they don’t take ethical whoring into consideration.