If you’re planning to visit Indonesia on a holiday or to live here as an expat, your easiest way to meet local Indonesian girls is through this dating site.
In this article I’ll provide you with tips to meet Indonesian girls on your next trip.
What is Indonesian cupid?
Indonesian cupid is the biggest online dating site in Indonesian.
If you want to setup dates before you land or meet girls who are down to meeting western guys, it’s your best option.
Remember that Indonesia is a Muslim country (70% population are Muslim) and most of the girls are not allowed to meet guys or have sex before marriage, especially western guys.
Unless you can spot a Muslim girl by just looking at her, you’ll have a very hard time meeting Indonesian girls who you can date or take things further with.
Indonesian cupid is a great solution because it’s only used by Indonesian girls who want to meet western guys, and many of them can speak English, this takes the guessing game away.
Local Indonesian guys do not use the website, and Indonesian girls only use it to meet western guys.
My experiences using this site
Whenever I go on holiday alone or with my friends, the first thing I’ll do is login to the country’s biggest online dating site and take a look around.
If I’m travelling along it’s a great way to setup dates with girls and even ask them to be my personal tour guide. When I was in Jakarta I messaged dozens of girls and setup dates with about 5.
I asked one if she wanted our first date to be a mini-tour of Jakarta because I don’t know my way around and she loved the idea. Here’s what the average girls looks like, I decided not to filter by age to give you an idea of who you can talk to.
Girls are super friendly and will usually message you first if you have uploaded photos.
You don’t have to be good looking or anything like that in Asia, girls here aren’t judging if you have a 6 pack or not.
Just upload a few pictures in respectable clothing. Avoid wearing vests and t-shirts in your profile pictures.
Put on a dress-shirt or a nice t-shirt and jeans and upload them. Then wait to be flooded with messages.
The site has has many age groups, if you’re a young man there’s lots of girls in the 18-30 range and if you’re a retiree (45+) as you can see above there’s many girls in their 30s who are looking for an older man.
What types of girls are on there?
Around 90% of all girls on the dating site are regular hard-working girls.
Some work office jobs, others are at university with everyone else in between.
There’s really hot girls, there’s good looking girls, and there’s some downright ugly girls.
About 10% of the pool of girls are either hookers or ladyboys, but they will make that apparent straight away in their profile, and there’s a feature to block ladyboys from seeing your profile.
One of their best features is that you can target by city, whether you’re in Jakarta, Bali or any other city or island just refine your search and you’ll be matched with girls local to you.
I’d advise joining the site a 1-2 weeks before you visit Indonesia so you can start messaging girls and make friendships. This also allows you to setup dates when you arrive so you can make the most of your trip without having to waste days.
Click here to create your free Indonesian Cupid account.