Indonesian Cupid Review – Getting Girls The Easy Way
If you’re planning to visit Indonesia on a holiday or to live here as an expat, your easiest way to meet local Indonesian girls is through this dating site.
In this article I’ll provide you with tips to meet Indonesian girls on your next trip.
What is Indonesian cupid?
Indonesian cupid is the biggest online dating site in Indonesian.
If you want to setup dates before you land or meet girls who are down to meeting western guys, it’s your best option.
Remember that Indonesia is a Muslim country (70% population are Muslim) and most of the girls are not allowed to meet guys or have sex before marriage, especially western guys.
Unless you can spot a Muslim girl by just looking at her, you’ll have a very hard time meeting Indonesian girls who you can date or take things further with.
Indonesian cupid is a great solution because it’s only used by Indonesian girls who want to meet western guys, and many of them can speak English, this takes the guessing game away.
Local Indonesian guys do not use the website, and Indonesian girls only use it to meet western guys.
My experiences using this site
Whenever I go on holiday alone or with my friends, the first thing I’ll do is login to the country’s biggest online dating site and take a look around.
If I’m travelling along it’s a great way to setup dates with girls and even ask them to be my personal tour guide. When I was in Jakarta I messaged dozens of girls and setup dates with about 5.
I asked one if she wanted our first date to be a mini-tour of Jakarta because I don’t know my way around and she loved the idea. Here’s what the average girls looks like, I decided not to filter by age to give you an idea of who you can talk to.
Girls are super friendly and will usually message you first if you have uploaded photos.
You don’t have to be good looking or anything like that in Asia, girls here aren’t judging if you have a 6 pack or not.
Just upload a few pictures in respectable clothing. Avoid wearing vests and t-shirts in your profile pictures.
Put on a dress-shirt or a nice t-shirt and jeans and upload them. Then wait to be flooded with messages.
The site has has many age groups, if you’re a young man there’s lots of girls in the 18-30 range and if you’re a retiree (45+) as you can see above there’s many girls in their 30s who are looking for an older man.
What types of girls are on there?
Around 90% of all girls on the dating site are regular hard-working girls.
Some work office jobs, others are at university with everyone else in between.
There’s really hot girls, there’s good looking girls, and there’s some downright ugly girls.
About 10% of the pool of girls are either hookers or ladyboys, but they will make that apparent straight away in their profile, and there’s a feature to block ladyboys from seeing your profile.
One of their best features is that you can target by city, whether you’re in Jakarta, Bali or any other city or island just refine your search and you’ll be matched with girls local to you.
I’d advise joining the site a 1-2 weeks before you visit Indonesia so you can start messaging girls and make friendships. This also allows you to setup dates when you arrive so you can make the most of your trip without having to waste days.
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Hi . I am planning to make a trip to Bali in OCT this year . I was in Bali about 4 years ago and it was and nice short Holiday time . This Time I hope to be there for about 14 Days . I have linited Funds , and will be happy to stay in cheaper accomodation . , not always in the City areas . I hope to do a lot of day time tours , May be staying over night at some locations .
It would be GREAT if I could meet and have the company of a young lady , for Company 24/7. for much of this holiday time , Shopping and Touring , and evening meals and Evening “Happy Time ”
I look forward to your Reply .
Regards Ron . — Cairns Australia .
Hey Ron, check them out on the site I listed and let us know how you get on.
I look fprward to your reply . Then plan a great trip .
Best wishers From Cairns Qld.. Ron
Hi Harvie . I am still planning a Bali Holiday trip. ! When looking on the “Web” I find it all a bit hard to get usefull Info on selecting a Lady Friend to enjoy my holiday time With . There is of course the need to be happy to “Pay” for her company, as we travel and Live together .
I am sure that other guys have managed this task in the past , So I hope you can provide some advice on this Process .
I do not wish to spend any time in “Night Clubs , and or Much on Drinking . I look forward to site seeing in the “UBUD” area , and other country side locations . May be a little time in some of the Big Shopping Centers , and may be Cinemas >
Your advice will be VERY welcome . Best wishers from “Ron ” Cairns Australia . .
Hi Ron, I’ve been to Ubud and there aren’t many clubs or bars so it sounds like you might enjoy it more. The best way to pay without visiting discos or music heavy bars is to join the site above say 2 weeks before you land. Start messaging girls and tell them that you need a ‘tour guide’ and then escalate slowly without being weird or sending dick pics (you’ll be shocked at how many people do).
Or you can be straight up, some will be shocked while at your offer others will be totally fine with it. I wouldn’t mention you want a companion for your entire holiday in your first reply. Sometimes it’s more subtle to place it in your profile description.
But yes, if you want to avoid clubs, then Indonesian Cupid is going to be your best bet.
me and my friend are coming to bali from india,on 17th to 23 we are usually regular to pattaya and bangkok, interested in discos and clubs , and girls , we have booked our hotel in kuta , we always pick our girls after discos to our rooms , any advice and tips to us ??
If you have been to Bangkok and Pattaya you already know how it works. The only thing I would say is that girls in Kuta usually ask for more money than in Pattaya, so I’d always discuss the price before hand as some will you tell you $500 which is lol-worthy.
i’m also will come to october
Just started on the site to test the waters prior to my holiday next April. Pleasantly surprised with the response. Set up quite a few girls and some seem to be excited about the prospect of showing me around. My main concern is if i find a couple of nice ladies and spend some time with them I may not want to come home again. LOL. Good suggestion about joining the site and also swapped some email addresses an whatsapp numbers with them
Yes I can’t believe how easy it is either. Keep us posted when you get there, would love to hear your stories.
No worries Harvie – will do. Enjoy your holiday too.
This site is a goldmine to pick up girls in both Jakarta and Bali and ideal if you’re traveling alone or in a small group.
One tip I would give everyone is to buy a simcard with 3g so you can message the girls while you’re out in the day. This will allow you to advance the conversation faster and meet them at night.
You can buy simcards at the airport, make sure you get a simcard that has 3g and calling as some are ‘data only’ which is annoying if you want to call girls.
Hi Harvie, I was over in kuta for 12 days.I met this lovely women, she stayed with me for 10 days,and it only cost me $250 dollars for her to stay with me..It was like a honeymoon…WOW.. regards Mark.
Haha, sounds like you had a good time. If you stay in Ubud it’s hard to spend more than $20 a day as it is it’s that cheap.
Hi Mark,
Where did you find her? Any contact details?
cheers
He means he found her off Indo Cupid and spent $250 on her (food, travel, etc) for dates and stuff.
Mark. Help us. Number we can contact her. Or how you found her. 250 per night or whole ten days
The girl he found was a normal girl off the site, she is not a hooker, there is no point asking him for her number.
Hi Harvie,
The very first thing you mentioned was if you are a “white male”. Would you please shed some more light as to why you said that and what if you are not a white male.
Thank you in advance. I’m looking forward to your reply.
Hey Ben,
It’s because some girls love white-skinned men, if you’re brown or black it’s a little harder to get the same amount of messages. Girls will still message you for sure but not as much as if you were white skinned.
Hi Guys,
I’m travelling to Nusa Lembongon, so what’s the best place to find these types of places…? Any recommendations…??
Thanks in advance.
I’ve not been there but I think your best chance will be a mixture of online dating and day-game, aka going to bars or cafes and giving your LINE ID to girls you like.
I am traveling by end of June 2017. It was really a great information and useful, I was bit scared since it was an Muslim country. Last time I went to Thailand and had fun actually I am looking for a sex tourism. As u mentioned I have planned to book the ticket for Jakarta and going to have lot of sex. One thing I need to know about the Indonesia Cupid do we need to pay for messaging in the Cupid. Can u suggest a good place to stay near to night life. Where can I bring girls to my room. Waiting for your reply.
I like staying in Kermang, it’s a popular area for expats but a little small but has a few bars, clubs and most girls know where it is.
This site is a full of girls in Bali and Jakarta, a little in Yoga too but not so much in the smaller towns. In Jakarta I found the girl were busy during the days working and often wanted to me between 6-9pm or the weekends, where in Bali they would meet whenever you wanted, any reason why?
Jakarta has a big CBD so lots of people work for companies whereas Bali is mostly funded on tourism. Less jobs in Bali or more relaxed jobs thus the girls will meet you whenever.
Hello
I arrived in Bali 3 days ago it my first time in Bali I would like to date an Indonesian girl for tomorrow if possible because I’m free tomorrow since I’m here for business thanks
How do I get massage lady during my stay in Jakarta Dude ?!
Do you mean a sex massage? There’s lots of brothels there I’ve listed them on my website if you want to pay for sex in Jakarta.
Hi Harvie,
I plan to visit Bali and Jakarta and want to get more info from you.Please give me info about the night life and how to have fun with women and money is no option
Just read my site.
Send me u r site bro am from india can u give me tips to enjoy full sex enjoy life in bali..in cheaper
Make more money.
If you don’t want to pay for hookers in Kuta (they are all hookers in the clubs) then you’ll need expat friends or this website. I joined a month before my trip and took girls out during the night to a few bars and clubs and had a great time.
Plan to go back later in the year and try it out in Jakarta
Hi Harvie,
Planiing to visit Indonesia what time of year is best suited to visit the country and i was a bit confused whether to visit bali or jakarta. And how is ubud i keep on hearing about but not much info.. Could you please advice me on this. Thanks in advance…
Hey Sunny, they all offer different things.
Jakarta is a mad city that is super busy, if you like big cities you’ll probably like it.
If you like Beaches, then Bali.
If you like small and quiet towns, then UBud.
If you want girls then it’s either Jakarta or Bail.
hi Harvie,
I had been there last year and enjoyed lot of fun there.also thankful for suggesting Indonesia-cupid dating site.I got nice girl from there for 10 days in only 200 $.
Ill be there again in the month of August for 15 days ,my query is actually I have received lot of express interest from indo-cupid to stay & having full of fun with me.I got 4-5 girls which are ready to stay with me completely free of cost for fortnight also.majorly are from Jakarta and they only expecting flights fare.is it possible or something fishy? what you say? please help and explore your experience.Thanks in advance…
Really depends on the context and what you said to these girls. Hard for me to give any real advice without knowing what you said and whether these girls told you they are working or are regular girls that you asked to take on holiday.
Hey Harvie. I met this girl on Bali.dating. She says she works with public relations at a Karaoke bar in Jakarta. After searching online, it seems that quite a lot of the employees there are prostitutes. Also, she dresses really fancy/sexy for work, wich made my suspicion stronger.
I will be staying with this girl for about two weeks in Bali, and to be honest I might look for more than just sex (maybe a relationship, don’t know). My question is this: 1) Do you think she is a prostitute? 2) Will I be charged with a large bill, and will a large pimp show up if I refuse to pay and 3) is there a polite way of asking this girl about this? We chat quite often on What’sapp.
I hope you can help me with this.
1) she most likely has sex with people for money.
2) Talk to her and ask her what the deal with. They won’t be offended, it’s the only what you’ll get answers to this question.
3) Just tell her everything you told me and tell her you don’t mean to be rude.
Hey..its me james..iwill go to bali in january 11..plz suggest me where and how i get a white girs..(western)..i am from india..i will stay there one week
Do you know if any Indian guys using this site and got lucky?? Unlike Thailand girls almost look at indian guys in a strange way..
With good photos you’ll be fine.
Hi, I’m from Melbourne Australia. I’ll be in a short holiday trip to Bali from 22-23 February. I’m looking forward to see a beautiful Indonesian girl for happy time. Interested girls, please email me.
I admire your patience with some of the questions Harvie.
Good one Dave
Hi Harvie, During my recent holiday in Indonesia I met a really nice, cute Indonesian girl which I came in contact with about 3 weeks before I came to Indonesia. We spent about five days together which was awesome, we like each other a lot. The downside however was that sex was impossible because of her religious principle of no sex before marriage (hugs and kissing, even sleeping together was no problem). Is this happening often in Indonesia? How can you find this out beforehand? She is of Protestant religion. Still in contact with her daily despite that I told her I have no intention to marry her. Feeling sad about this situation.
Best way to know is to ask them beforehand about their religious beliefs.
Hi,
I hope this is still active, in Kuta for how much can you get girls to spend the day with you or even 2 3 days?
Thank you in advance
I ❤️ love Indonesian women. They are very kind and friendly. The girls are very pretty and smart. The Indonesian girl that I know works very hard.