In Bali 83.5% of the population follows Balinese Hinduism.
If you’re looking to meet Balinese girls or to find yourself a Balinese girlfriend, Bali has much more of a western culture than the rest of Indonesia.
Balinese girls tend to speak much better English than mainland girls which is mostly thanks to tourism.
Unlike other parts of Indo where it can be pretty hard to meet girls, that’s not the case with Balinese girls.
During my time on the island I saw plenty of western males dating local Balinese girls.
They are no different to girls anywhere else in the world, they come in many types including:
Traditional Bali girl – this girl doesn’t go out too late at night, listens to her family and is overall a sweet girl. Her English may not be the best and she may or may not be interested in dating western men.
Traditional Balinese women will most likely not drink or smoke, so if you do meet one I’d not ask her to meet up for a drink unless that drink is a milkshake.
These girls are much harder to find as they rarely visit tourist areas and for you to find them you’ll either need to live here long-term or use a dating site. They’ll often live far away from the tourist centres and have early curfews.
Western Balinese girl – this a women who has been bought up listening to western style music, has perhaps travelled and follows all the same social media influencers as you.
These types of Bali women tend to be the ones most likely to be friends or date you and easiest to meet.
If you hop onto Indo Cupid they will be there ready to chat with you, you’ll probably meet them in restaurants, bars and clubs.
Party girls – Balinese party girls are well, girls that link to drink and party.
They are not the best if you’re looking for a serious Balinese girlfriend but are ideal if you’re here for a few days or weeks and want to party.
The party girl is also the one who will cost you the most money as in Asia you’re expected to pay for all drinks and bottle service.
A mistake many men make is to date this girl for the long-term it’s usually not a good idea as when you leave she will carry on partying and meeting others.
What do Balinese girls think of western men?
Good and bad.
Lots of drunk Aussies visit Bali and have given westerners a bit of a bad rap, some Balinese girls will try and avoid you.
My tip would be never to wear a vest and flip flops unless you’re on the beach.
Going to a bar, restaurant or club always dress in chino shorts and a t-shirt with trainers at the bare minimum.
Dress sense matters a lot in Bali and Balinese girls are more likely to talk to you if you dress well.
Dressing in beach wear girls in Bali will lump you in with the Aussies who drink too much and cause trouble.
As Indonesia is a Muslim country, Indian and Arabs do much better here than say Thailand where they aren’t favoured.
First impressions matter a lot.
Don’t be rude, don’t be too forward and don’t dress like a beach tourist.
Be polite, be kind, respect their culture and you’ll have a much better chance of meeting a good Balinese girls.
Is it easy get a Balinese girlfriend?
Finding a Balinese girlfriend all depends on the type of guy you’re.
It’s best to live here long-term if you’re looking to find a serious Balinese girlfriend, rent an apartment and understand the culture a little bit.
Bali has over 4 million people living there and it’s not difficult to meet girls and eventually end up in a relationship with a girl in Bali.
Outside of tourism there aren’t a lot of jobs in Bali and with the average monthly salary being $140 per month.
The point being if you do want to have a long-term Balinese girlfriend then don’t expect her to pay for half the things you do, it’s an island with a limited about of jobs to really earn good money.
This is true for most of Asia, thankfully the cost of living in Bali is pretty cheap and you can live a good life with your Balinese girlfriend for under $1,000 if you don’t drink or party.
Bali women for older guys
For the older guys(40+) who are thinking of retiring in Bali or wanting to find a Balinese women to marry here’s the low down.
I’ve not spent too much time in Bali but I’ve spent long enough in Asia to know how it works.
If you’re looking to meet a Bali women to see out your final 20 or so years with, here’s a few things you need to know.
First the way you look will depend what type of Bali women you’ll meet.
If you don’t look after yourself and are a mess, then you’ll only end up with a Bali women who matches you.
As wages are lower you’ll need to able to support them financially which isn’t hard as everything in Bali is cheap.
Notice how I am calling them Bali women, anyone over 40+ is not going to be able a 20 year old Bali girl.
Dating sites are the best place to meet them as you can filter by age and do not be surprised if they have a child.
With the info about Balinese women out the way, here are 7 places to meet them.
1. Online dating sites
Arrange your own date by going online. You can either meet a local or working Balinese girls through online dating sites such as this one. The website actually has different profiles of Indonesian or Bali girls which you can choose from with just a touch of a button.
It’s the easiest and cheapest way to get laid in Bali.
There have been a couple of success stories where a foreigner met a Bali girl and ended up marrying her. However, if you are just looking for short time fun, you can also find some of them on the site.
This is the best place to find yourself a Balinese girlfriend.
Freelancers, bar girls or sex workers are often posting their profiles on these online dating sites with the hope of finding a client who is just looking for a casual date (with a fee, of course). It just depends on your negotiation if there is money involved.
However, around 95% of the girls are regular ladies, there are a few Bali ladyboys on the site too.
2. Balinese bar girls
Bars in Bali are always packed with foreigners.
It seems that the place has a reputation when it comes to sex and drugs.
Prostitution is illegal in Bali and Indonesia as a whole. But there’s no stopping a Balinese women to have fun especially in exchange for money.
Bali girls whom you can see at bars are those who look just like any local Balinese girl except with too much makeup on and dresses a little sexier compared to good girls.
You can mostly find these bars in the Kuta or Sanur area. Here are a couple of bars that you can find and perhaps meet Balinese girls during your night out.
Borneo Pub– this is located on Jalan Danau Tamblingan, unfortunately they close around 1 a.m. just when the night is getting started
Casablanca – located in the Kuta area, this is where you can find foreigners high on drugs courting night butterflies or otherwise called as “kupu kupu malams.”
Other bars in Bali’s nightlife where you can find girls are Bounty Ship, Peanuts and Paddy’s. If you are planning to stay up until the morning drinking then you can go to Mama’s which is open until sunrise.
You can be able to meet Bali girls just by hanging out at some of these nightclubs or bar. It could either be a bad girl depending on the area or you can meet a bar girl.
Never turn a bar girl into your Balinese girlfriend unless you want to lose money.
4. Bali escorts
A Bali escort is a women who visits you at your apartment or hotel.
If you’re looking for a discreet way to meet Balinese women then a Bali escort is your best choice.
As of right now there are not many services to meet escorts in Bali and I cannot provide you any places as I’ve yet to try them myself.
One thing to note with Bali escorts is that the girls in the site may not look like that when they arrive.
Photos are either fake, photo shopped or taken years ago.
It’s not uncommon to meet a Bali escort only for her to look 10 years older than the image.
For this reason it’s better to go a massage parlour or meet a Bali hooker in the club because as you can see what they look like and get to know them a little better.
Expect to pay around 20-50% more in price for an escort in Bali but you also get the peace of mind that she will be discreet and to your room.
4. Massage Parlors in Bali
If you are not in the mood for a drink and you simply want to relax, you can still meet a Bali girl from massage parlor.
You might not be able to take the girl home or back to the hotel with you. You can be able to enjoy a Bali girl in just about an hour or two.
There are no drinks, bar fines and short time rooms to pay. If you are just someone who is itching to have their balls scratched the quickest way, then perhaps this is the place for you to meet Balinese girls. The caveat is that your conversation will only be limited to basic conversation pertaining to the massage and sex. Unless of course, if the woman agrees to meet with you outside of their work place after their working hours.
You can be able to find these happy ending massage parlors in the areas of Sanur, Kuta, Renon, Legain and Seminyak. When it is your first time to travel in Bali, most taxi drivers know which establishments offer these types of service. Just tell them happy ending massage and they can drive you straight to any of these.
Bali women working in massage parlous tend to vary in age but expect most to be over 30 years old.
Personally speaking, when I read or hear about brothels, it makes me think of something hardcore.
When you are looking for brothels in Bali, you can find them in Sanur where most of these establishments are located.
Balinese Women working in these brothels are not really a local Bali girl but they came from poor and far flung villages or provinces around Java. Due to their current economic status, most Bali women (and they are young and naïve) are forced to work under horrible conditions.
You can be able to meet freelance Bali girls in nightclubs, bars, pubs or even on the street. They usually target foreign men.
Either they will wait for you to approach them or those who are slightly aggressive might grab you by the arm with the hope of hiring them for the night. They would also pay a nightclub entrance fee or pay commission to nightclub security to provide them access.
There are Bali women who work as freelancers part-time, I would advise not to date them. Learn more about the red light areas of Bali.
7. Karaoke Workers
You can be able to meet Bali girls from karaoke bars. They usually provide services of hanging out with clients within the confines of these karaoke rooms.
Bali women working at these establishments are hired to sing, dance and drink with you but who knows what else could they be doing inside these rooms? I have not yet tried this because I am not a fan of karaoke bars. One thing is for sure – this is another way of meeting Bali women.
These are actually not your typical café. These establishments which are usually found around quiet towns and villages around Bali operate where you can hook up with Bali girls and have sex in exchange for money. So sex and prostitution in Bali actually works day in and day out.
In Bali, sex is not a taboo
However, all these activities must be done away from the public eye.
If you meet a girl randomly and want to spend a night with her, there are plenty of love hotels. In Bali, there are a variety of hotels to suit all budget.
I would recommend you go with average. Those too cheap are not well maintained.
Also, do not leave lingerie behind. I have heard stories of hotel mailing such items to your home address. You don’t want your wife to start questioning your trips.
I’m assuming this info is for amateurs. Pros always use condoms and if they don’t you should anyway.
Whether you meet a normal Balinese girl or a working girl always protect safe sex. Asia has one of the highest STD rates in the world.
Food in Bali
Food is cheap in Bali. With $1 -$3, you will have a sumptuous meal along the streets. When on a date $10 is enough for a decent meal.
That is good news for bro. I bet sex is greater with a full stomach.
Transport in Bali
We assume you won’t hire a car and instead use local public transport. The good news is, transport is cheap.
With 12 000 rupees, you can ferry from West Bali to East Java. A 5 hours bus trip will cost you 120,000 rupees.
Always negotiate the price
Indonesian will try to suck you to the last penny. Just walk on the street as try to buy something. Chances are you price will be four times the local.
Keep your valuables safe
Bali is not the safest place on earth.
Leave your luggage at the hotel.
Carry just enough money to spend.
If you bring a girl to your hotel, keep the valuables locked in a safe.
Blend with the locals
If you are on a tight budget you better blend with the locals.
Stay in average hotels, east street side snacks, noodles, and soup.
Use public transport and you will keep your wallet fat.
This way you can minimize spending and have more to spend on local Bali girls.
Stay away from underage girls in Bali
The legal age consent is 18. Keep your hands and D on your pants even if she looks mature. It’s better if you ask for ID first.
Bali is a Muslim country. If they find you guilty they might put you behind bars for years.
Create a rapport with the girl
Yes, you will pay for the sex or time but that does not mean not putting an effort. I hear some of you lie there like a log and leave all the action to the girl.
If you keep going down this road you will all the fun. While they are looking for money, she is expecting some fun too. Bring you’re A-game, bro!
The must-visit cities in Bali
Kuta – this is by far the wildest city in Bali. There is all sort of night venues to hook up with Bali girls be it for a massage, dating and even sex.
Seminyak is the second on the list with its location being north of Kuta. This is city run from the overflow of Kuta. La Favela is the must-visit bar and nightclub in the area.
Canggu is the 3rd most popular in Bali. Unlike the two first cities, things are more relaxed hence targeting families and couples. It’s a nice place to take your date.
Denpasar is a city on the fast lane. You will not come across many tourists here unless you move to the eastern side, Sanur.
It’s highly populated and the traffic is crazy and there’s a lot of Balinese women here.