What Expats Need to Know About Singapore Girls
For anyone coming here to meet Singapore girls, you are in for a treat. But before I talk about that, after having lived in 5 countries and visiting 20 others, I can say Singapore is the most twisted place I have ever had the displeasure of getting caught up in. and yet that same place is exactly what makes expats sell their souls for contract work here.
This is a guest post by Cyclone, a long term expat living in Vietnam and Singapore.
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I do want to point out that despite the city’s effort to distance itself from the rest of South East Asia, there are very obviously SEA vibes here, so don’t enter the city thinking too highly of their society.
People act so fake, and their values for what make them happy so off the mark that it can make you sick to your stomach. Singapore girls, however, are overall a positive aspect and despite them beinghard work. they are just alluring enough to keep you horny and pushing for more. These following points refer *only* to true, ethnically-Chinese Singaporean girls (~70% of total girls in Singapore), and not the other multitude of mixes you’ll run into in Singapore.
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Lazy behavior
This one actually takes a few months of living in Singapore to catch on to, but is probably the first thing to know upon arrival. Singaporean families have gained a lot of wealth over the past 20 years, meaning the current generation has lived nothing but rich lifestyles and in everything was handed to them.
Singapore girls don’t know the idea of work or tribulations, and will not feel inclined to lift a finger for a man, expat or local. As such, they suffer from some pretty overly idealistic views of how to be treated, walk like penguins, talk and write about the most pointless subjects. They make zero effort to entertain or improve the lives of those around them.
Just replace “white hipsters” with “chirpy Asians.” The reason this is so angering is that it makes you want to do jack shit for them either. As men, we by nature want to reward good, correct behavior, not the entitled language that one observes in Singapore girls.
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Western yet feminine
Men who escape to Asia for their respectable, eager-to-please women will some change when they take a peek towards Singapore girls. The country has a lot of western traits, rampant feminism, placed on a pedestal surrounded by men, and a general “impress me” attitude infect any modern society.Thankfully however, and the main reason I prefer Singaporean girls to American girls is that there still exist sexual polarity in this society.
Women still act like women. They are fairly passive, let men lead, giggle easily, often are happy when men buy things for them. They know their role in a work or household. Sure, you get many career women out here, but when it comes to relationships, rules are rules. There is no confusion on what women’s priorities are around here unlike the cluster fuck found in America.
“why would this one be different?”
A little dose of Singaporean men. Unless a woman travels extensively, her primary experience with men is a flock of cookie-cutter. Most are beta providers that step on one another to show who can offer her the most. It’s not a bad preposition either. I’m sure a lot of men would love the fact if their advanced degree, stability, and investments result in the level girl that they got.
But this effect pigeon holes the type of men they are trained to see. Singapore girls brains think of men in black and white, making them blind to various types of expats or holiday makers they meet, especially if they lived the typical lifestyle. Thus when approached by any man whose financial status is unknown, the one question going through their mind is, “why would this guy be any different?”. You should not be offended if your vast experience or witty sarcasm doesn’t register with them.
It can take months of intensive “undoing” for a Singapore girls mind to even understand that multiple facets exist to fulfill various desires she has. For her to weigh, like other women, the pros and cons of every man that approaches her, and ask herself questions such as “how wet would I get when this man bangs me tonight?”.
Zero personality, all ego
“But Cyclone – if Singapore girls live such straight edge lifestyles and are surrounded by carbon copy men. Then I, the exotic and experienced expat, should be the breath of fresh air woman are fiending.” Well, yes, there is a subgroup of Singapore girls who have left the country that will give you well above average attention. But at their core, the only things floating in these women’s minds are the numbers and status.
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The overtaking of traits is a scary and very real product of their society, but the women here literally *do not notice* non ego-related characteristics in front of them. They have no sense of sarcasm, no sense of how to flirt, and their faces (and minds) literally go blank when a man teases her.
Despite all we have been told about girls secretly wanting an alpha while hiding it from society and peers, Singapore just might be the only place where that is true. So be confident and be showy.
Sex and loyalty
When I say “sex’”, I don’t mean that these women know what sex is all about and purposefully are scared off it . what it really means is that I suspect Singapore girls don’t even know what sex is. It’s probably the worst crime of Singaporean society – the complete negligence of a woman’s own sexual awareness, who feel no need or urgency to fulfill her own desires even when they are at their sexual peak.
The shame is that Singaporean girls are actually incredibly hot, when compared with the surrounding countries of Malaysia, Indonesian islands, and even by Hong Kong standards. But anyway, the best place to meet Singapore girls I using Singapore Love Lines the number on Singapore dating site , here you’ll find tons of sexy Singaporean girls, They are not impossible to get, but take a more time time and effort than compared to the likes of Bangkok or Manila. But they are worth it.
Really funny post and an interesting read. I agree with most posts but gosh… Singaporean girls are not hot. They have nice long hair and wear ultra short shorts to show some legs, but THAT’S IT. Most of them have no tits, no ass, no personality, no confidence (that’s why they don’t get the innuendos or teasing. They get offended instead if the find that you did not worship them on the pedestal that they came with). Nothing.
Two, Singaporean girls can be really hyper when it comes to sex, IF you know how to get them going. Many times, they are the initiators.
I find girls of other countries easier, with less of that ego play and are more enjoyable to be with, generally. And also they would do more to help out than the average Singaporean girl, who will just sit back and expect the man to do everything. Absolutely useless.
Hi Tim,
Your comment help me a little. My Fiancé will be traveling there soon and I am really worried he might do something stupid because he has done it before. After reading your comment I feel more confident to some extent that he won’t cheat. 🙁
I am very attractive and have everything else going for myself except insecurities… I am praying to God that you are right and that he won’t have to even consider such terrible thing. 🙁
Thanks for your comment again
Hi Linda,
You should communicate your thoughts with him. If you don’t trust your Fiancé ,maybe he should not be your Fiancé (yet, until you do trust him). Trust is the biggest factor in a relationship. For me, if I had a partner and I was worried about them cheating every time I’m not with them, that is not a relationship I want to be in, or I would accept they will but I am number one and be fine with it.
If you are that worried that he will cheat then he probably will and you should dump him. It is not worth the stress and worry. What if he comes home with an STD? Don’t settle for a man that you think is going to cheat. Not a good start to a life mate…
Very true ! Nice and honest blog infact same experience a very obvious and expact can easily notice this.
I second Tim. I was there and hardly had a frisson in my pant. The girls were just boring and uninteresting. I eventually got fed up with their silly crutch hogging shorts and skirts.
I also actually resent the description of Singaporeans as rich. This is a fallacy that majority of Singaporeans are trapped. Most are not rich by any stretch of the imagination. Evidence is all around you in the form of HDBs which is where majority are corralled.
It was very funny that at the end of my visit, some school kids asked me if I agree with them that Singapore is a really boring place. I was shocked but delighted that there is some hope yet. Those kids were the only people I actually liked aside for my gf and she is not Singaporean 🙂
The sole Singaporean friend I have had me laughing when she turned up dressed in some rubbish outfit. They actually have no sense whatsoever however big on self entitlement.
Strange. The only Singaporean ladies I have ever encountered were air hostesses when flying with Singapore Airlines from Europe to Asia. And I must say quite a number of them are real stunners. But maybe, now we’re talking about a category, which is simply by far too much for an average guy like me.
True I don’t have any experience with the rest of Singaporean girls, so I’ll have to stand by your opinion(s), as I have never been in downtown Singapore itself.
Singaporean girls think highly of themselves but will open their legs so wide if they see a Rich “Ang Moh” (white person). They hunt in packs when searching for the elusive, Eduardo Saverin (co-founder of facebook), rich ass muthaffff..
What a ridiculous things to write, Pinoy Pride. It is insulting and disrespectful.
I am assuming you could not get a Singaporean girl to look at you so now label all Singaporean girls.
I further you are from the Philippines. If this is the case, you are in no position to judge the citizens of another country disrespectfully. However, this is most typical from Philippine people.
Look in the mirror for the reason why a Singaporean wants nothing to do with you, rather than stating it is the rich white person, or a co-founder of Facebook.
Disrespectful Pinoy Pride.
hey, I was so in love with a sing girl, let me tell you my sad story. First nights at the Fullerton (one of the best and authentic hotels in sin with the raffles). She is beautiful, intelligent and gave me the best sex I had in my whole life. Put toothpaste on my brush etc. Yehaaa, I told myself. Taken her here and there and paid for everything (normal), and one day, I told her I was broke although I wasn’t. As someone said, after a time, when they have hooked you, they lay down and expect you to guess what they want or need. Yes, you got it right, they will not tell you they will expect you to guess. Did not guess right and been thrown out like a piece of ship. Is now two month, have been crying like never every day, two attempts of suicide and still cannot live without her? Been completely ghosted, so yes, I agree they are incredibly hot (only some Japanese can be hotter) and they are not stupid at all? So my advise, either you have a heart of stone or when you see one of the two beauties above, run in the opposite direction. I will never be able to forget her, Marc
In January I was meditating in Malaysia and there I contacted a Singaporean girl on a dating app. We had a Skype call and she spent four days with me in Singapore as I made my way back to Canada. I had booked a simple three star hotel (Kam Leng) but that didn’t seem to be an issue. She’s 22yrs younger than me, not overly educated but pretty with a beautiful smile. We talk on Watsapp all the time and she visited me in April, saying hi to my friends and making dinner for my mother. She’s really into me from what I can tell – and I’m really into her. She is slim and sexy. She’s supposed to come her in the fall for school and I’m super happy. I am newly divorced and did not think I would ever find such a great woman.
Singapore girls cannot make it. I did countless approaches but cannot get any. it is so much easier to approach an Indonesian or a Filipina. they are much more friendly and welcoming to strangers. a Singaporean girl will ignore me and not say anything and some even mention to me, “sorry I don’t talk to strangers.” how fucked up is that? it is the same shit like American girls.
I had been there many times.all Singaporean girls are very hot and very small every where. Lack of sex experience but when you driver properly, support from them will be extra ordinary.
Sg girls are gold diggers and they will cheat on you. My ex Rachel, beautiful, tall and had a son that I love as if he was my own. This gold digger started sleeping with every guy she thought had money. After 6 years, I had enough of her fooling around. Sg girls are very immature and they have no confidence in themselves. She contacted HPV and has been with so many guys from other countries that I am glad I walked away when I did. Stay away from these Sg women and from Rachel Foo.