Thai Girl Vigilante Facebook Groups Target Farang Men

So a few months ago, a broke expat friend of my went on a date with a Thai girl. He was in a pretty bad state financially, and should have been booking his flight home rather than going on dates with no money, but there’s a lot of fucked up farangs here.

Anyway, he took the girl to some 200 baht buffet. Come bill time (420 baht), he totally ignored it and made the girl feel so uncomfortable, that she eventually paid up. The girl didn’t want to pay nor did she expect to pay, as my friend asked her on the date and she agreed.

It just was out of sheer embarrassment of waiting 15 minutes for my broke friend to pay up, that she paid after constant nagging from staff.

I know, I need to find new friends.

Later that day, my friend messaged me saying the date went well and she paid for everything.

Fast forward 12 or so hours and one of my Line chat groups was going off. It turned out that Thai girls have private groups on Facebook (you won’t be able to join), where they discuss farang guys, upload pictures, show off their boyfriends and bad experiences.

There are a number of groups, most are friendly but a few do go full retard and hate on us pretty hard.

After this Thai girl’s bad experience, she uploaded a picture of my friend that she took at dinner into the Facebook group, and told over 10,000 girls in Bangkok what happened. My friend’s girlfriend was in that group and she sent him the print screens of the Facebook update.

I won’t be posting screen shots of the post, but it received hundreds of likes huge amounts of engagement from girls in the group.

They outed his name, where he was from and what he did.

Over the next few days, as my friend was talking to other girls, a few happened to be in the group and told him where to go:

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What goes on inside These Thai girl groups?

These Facebook groups are like online forums. Girls mostly post pictures of farang models, dates they’ve been on, boyfriends and other relationship style posts. Most are either showing off their boyfriend, asking for relationship advice, sometimes they ask if anybody has dated a guy and upload their photo into the group.

Every now and then, they post up a farang guy who has done something bad (cheated on girl, used her etc) and call him out and make others girls aware. But usually it’s fun stories and good experiences like the one below:

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If you are the kind of guy who treats Thai girls unfairly or with no respect, I’d be careful because it may  end up biting you in the ass. You won’t be able to find these groups as they are mostly hidden and in Thai.

If you have a Thai girlfriend, you can get her to type keywords into the Facebook search. I have links to the groups, but see no value in posting them here.

I mean even if you do find them, they will not accept you into the group.

My opinion on these groups

There are a lot of bad dudes out here who have no respect for Thai girls, while I’m not supporting the white knights of Bangkok, I think their group is kind of cool and valid. There is tons of information for us guys about Thai girls, it’s only fair that they have their own resource, right?

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It seems Thai girls are getting smarter. They are leveraging social networking to stop western farangs walking all over them.

They appear to be advancing in intelligence as well. They found out that farangs are now creating fake Thai girl profiles to join their groups. As a result, they have made the joining process of each group pretty strict.

I just thought I would let my readers know in case you’re one of the small percentage of guys who treats Thai girls badly. If you’re, you may want to be careful on how you interact with girls in the future.

I’ve been in one group for over a month, these girls rarely post bad things unless the guy has been a total dick and done something outrageous. Most of the time it’s good stories and dating advice.

There was another group called ‘Toxic farang’ which was a bit more mental but it appears Facebook has deleted that group for some reason.

These groups are quite large but on the scale of things very small (oxymoron). There are over 12 million people in Bangkok, and the average group contains around 5,00-20,000 girls, less than 1%.

Did you know about these groups, and what do you think?

27 thoughts on “Thai Girl Vigilante Facebook Groups Target Farang Men

  1. 13 July, 2015 at 4:43 pm

    Saw a pic friend in one group, has a wife and kid but still meets dating site sloots. Girl posting his pic was asking if anyone else has talked to him. A girl replies yeah he tried to talk to me too, then I saw him walking one day with his wife and daughter to I didn’t meet up with him…

    Then she ends ‘but nice guy na’


    1. 23 July, 2015 at 2:26 pm

      Haha that’s funny… These days with social media it’s extremely dangerous to cheat. I’ve heard some wild stories of girls randomly messaging other girls on your friends list and asking questions. Fuck that noise. #SingleLife

      1. Anon
        16 September, 2015 at 10:09 am

        You do know that you can have your friends list only visible to you, right?

  2. Pat
    13 July, 2015 at 4:47 pm

    Some of those Thai girls bring it on themselves, opening their legs first, then expecting the flood of gifts and cash from mr farang. When it doesn’t happen and they realised they’ve been played, they get all hollier than thou and play the innocent card….”poor little innocent thai girl…..exploited by stupid horrible farang”

    I’m not talking bargirls either. Normal girls….(hate that term)

    If they moved with the times and changed their attitude and thinking away from their ”Mr farang walking ATM” mentality then they may do better. Thai girls are pretty bad at lying, tending to assume those they lie to are as stupid as they are.

    Which is why I’ve the utmost respect for prostitutes. You pay, you get. No wining dining guesssing wondering acting pretending etc etc

    Playing the innocent victim after the event is a favourite practice of certain females in Thailand, the girl will still play this role despite her having a Thai BF even when she dates a farang. I’ve seen it, done it, played this field, am a veteran, even got several t-shirts to show for it. When I can be arsed to iron one I’ll post up a pic.

    The best girls are the ones who have moved with the times and the west. They are playing the field and enjoying it. They don’t expect to be wined, dined or have all bills paid for them. They have a few guys on the go. Good for them. Life’s there to be having fun and they’re doing it, despite the condemnation from the ”traditional” (or laughable) Thai so-called way of doing things.

    So Thai girls, move with the times, forget all the hang ups, open your eyes (if you can steer them away from your smart phone that is)

    Although I will say, many farangs are just stupid anyway. They will always be.

  3. nRon
    13 July, 2015 at 10:20 pm

    What comes around goes around! Kinda 😉

  4. MatKong
    14 July, 2015 at 4:22 am

    haha your tightwad friend lost much more by saving 420b that night, he lost face and now he will have to pay 2000b if he wants to get laid!

  5. Pat
    14 July, 2015 at 6:31 am

    On the flip side…..

    There does seem to be a competitive streak amongst some expats (usually the lower end ones, ”teachers” especially) who want to prove to eachother that their ‘GF’ is a normal Thai girl and not some cash hungry rip off hoe. In many cases it can backfire.

    I’m not surprised that many farangs are stereotyped as whore chasers, because in many cases they are, that’s what attracted them to Thailand in the first place, arrive on two week holiday, become hansum man, fall in love with bar whore then lose all common sense and become determined to live that life whatever the cost.

    Most masquerade as english teachers and pretend they are qualified, earning paltry salaries of 40k a month, merely just getting by but putting up this charade of success to other farangs. When they do attempt to chase some non-bargirl skirt they come unstuck, they don’t understand why this normal girl isn’t like the whores they were accustomed to leading to this backlash.

    Both sides (the complaining girls and idiot farangs) are as bad as eachother, and compromise will never be reached.

    Makes funny reading though.

    What would be the scenario if all male english teachers in Thailand were genuine qualified, degree educated experienced (back in their home countries) teachers with proper credentials, rather than the usual bunch of fiction masquerading as their resumes ?
    Would we really have a better class of expat? Would we still have this bunch of bill-dodging cheap charlies on the prowl?

    PS. I’ve seen the website where many desperate unqualified fools post up their resumes, details and ambitions, and I’ve never read as much bollocks since I attempted to read Harry Potter

    1. 14 July, 2015 at 10:57 am

      I get that a lot, guys telling me their girlfriend is not like the others or she’s way better. Must be some sort of inferiority complex.

      Even if teachers were super qualified and came to Thailand, I doubt we’d have better expats here. Why? Well read your 2nd paragraph to find the answer lol.

    2. japs
      20 July, 2015 at 8:15 am

      wow, that’s impressively spot on…

  6. Danny
    14 July, 2015 at 8:28 pm

    Great story, and its good to see Thai girls get a little smarter about cross-cultural dating. Its hard to believe that a guy from a wealthy, first-world country would use a girl from a developing country for a free meal ticket, but hey Thailand is a magnet for scumbags. Its a good sign that girls are taking steps to protect themselves from scum, while still maintaining a positive attitude towards foreigners in general.

    Although u say these groups are “small” for having up to 20,000 members, I’d say that probably includes a good chunk of the English-speaking girls in Bkk who primarily date foreigners. Sure there are 12 million people in BKK, but the pool of girls who are really into dating foreigners is pretty small. Spend a few months on Thai friendly for instance, and you’ll start to notice the same users online every day. So the bottom line is, don’t be a dickhead.

  7. shea
    15 July, 2015 at 3:49 am

    Funny, I was actually the subject of a (good) post in one of these groups recently.

  8. Pat
    15 July, 2015 at 4:31 am

    ^ Agreed, 100%

    – Distinguish between bars and regular situations. If you’re at her parents place for dinner, cracking jokes like ”I go with you” or ”she tell me I velly hansum” then laughing loudly is definitely out. You’ll be surprised at how many farang guys make such faux pas like that

    – If you have only ever conversed in pidgin english with Thais, don’t use it with decent girls. In fact don’t ever use it at all. You may well be assumed to have only conversed with the lower classes. Remember the class system is alive and well in Thailand, big time. If their english is poor, and your Thai non-existent, let things just flow, sometimes it’s more fun that way.

    – If she has very good/perfect english.even better. I know of a lot of fools who believe that girls with good command of english = fucked lots of farang blokes, hence their pursuit of what they believe to be ”innocent” chicks. WTF?

    – If her english is poor, speak your english slowly and clearly. To them you’re just talking normally, don’t talk fast like she’s a native speaker, it will just confuse her.

    – Don’t hope to bed your date within a few hours, wait and see. Take time. They’ll appreciate it. Sometimes it can be just as romantic dropping her off and then going home. isn’t the chase just as much fun if you’re serious about her?

    Jeezus man, I sound like a bloody advice column in some tabloid newspaper

    Maybe starting to slightly veer off topic ………………?

    1. 15 July, 2015 at 10:31 am

      Lol, I think you need your own blog Pat. is a fitting domain 🙂

  9. Pickle
    15 July, 2015 at 3:53 pm

    Pat I love the wisdom – keep it coming. I’m the same as you, utmost respect for bar girls. Some of the girls I know are making a very large salary each month. Very large.

    In farangland they’d be looked down upon as stupid disgraceful people….but they’re not, they’re the smart ones… It’s the farang paying for it that are stupid. The girl goes onto autopilot, easy money.

    One in particular I see. Absolutely excellent at her job, and has a queue of return customers each day. She’s properly minted.

    If you’re nice and you pay the tab, you can get away with murder here. But those smiles can disappear pretty quickly if you don’t keep your part of the deal.

  10. Pat
    16 July, 2015 at 4:48 am

    I never meant the respect for bargirls literally, the way I worded it was that those so-called ‘normal’ girls have such a low opinion of bargirls yet the way they behave is no better, in that they are also effectively giving sex for handouts, and complaining at having to pay a silly little 420baht check is one of many ways they show their colours. They get gifts lavished on them, wined and dined, in much the same way that a bargirl makes her money.

    The bargirl cuts directly to the chase, it’s a purely cash transaction, no strings.

    I think the underlying moral of the story is that either way, us blokes pay for it in whatever form.

    What’s that saying they have that sums up a lot of Thai females?

    Oh yeah…”Money number one”

    1. Pickle
      16 July, 2015 at 1:14 pm

      Currently it’s “No money, no honey”.

      My reply is always “No honey, no money”.

      1. Pat
        16 July, 2015 at 2:47 pm

        ^Great saying!

        One girl I’d just got to know for about a month asked me if she could borrow 4000 baht and I texted her ‘sorry, but no honey no money’ as I sensed I was going to be played like some punk muthafucka. Her Thai BF probably thought up the genius idea (as usual she’d sworn she was single and innocent)

        Her true colours came through when she texted me back ”fuck you pat”
        I may have considered it had we slept together…..goes back to the old saying about prostitutes and money number one!

  11. Keith
    16 July, 2015 at 12:35 pm

    Great post Harvie! Thanks for the “Intel” on the private FB accounts. I may have to take a crack at joining as Noi myself, just to get a window into that world? Like a peek hole in the girls shower, it shouldn’t be there; but, once you find it….hard to look away.

    1. 16 July, 2015 at 1:19 pm

      Lol, I hear you Keith. You will need to be able to read Thai or get the misses to translate though.

  12. Scandibro
    16 July, 2015 at 7:55 pm

    420 THB is pretty steep, I can understand your friend, we’re almost at bj money there.

    I think I wouldn’t have been able to handle the awkardness though, must help to have ‘poker face’.

    Also lol at 10.000 girls talking about farangs in a group. Paraphrased, the rumors of the death of good times in Thailand has been greatly exaggerated.

  13. 21 July, 2015 at 1:16 pm

    I can’t agree on most parts. First of all with a fluent written command in Thai, I joined some groups a few years ago and I am still in some of them. They don’t “block” anyone. Mostly they just automatically accept all new member-requests, since they have a lot of them per day.
    It looks like there is something mystical about the groups. There isn’t simply they discuss cultural differences, seek relationship advice and simply show off their latest bf material.

  14. Baxter
    25 July, 2015 at 7:13 pm

    That was probably the best story yet I’ve read on your blog, good information. Your friend definitely got what was he deserved.

  15. Bob
    10 August, 2015 at 2:34 am

    For an extra level of amusement the “girl” in the chat screenshot is actually a ladyboy, so it may or may not have done your friend a solid depending on his preferences…

  16. 13 August, 2015 at 9:44 am

    Great blog. I wrote my views on it here and back linked it as I think my readers should read this.

    Goddess Pasaya xx

    1. 16 August, 2015 at 4:45 am

      Read it, quite funny haha!

  17. Marcus
    4 May, 2016 at 2:04 pm

    Yes, that is right, the way you do it. Amazing. “I know some information that could be useful for everybody, any of us, guys, but I am not going to share it”. Very nice.

    That is the difference between female and male after all. Girls will always help each other, create FB groups, defend each other… you won´t expect that from guys, and you are the perfect example. The other guy is always “the other idot”, and a reason to laugh, “looks how he got screwed”. So you know these links yet you won´t share them. Why of course! You might think, “is it my business if they are telling lies about other guy out there?” “Screw him!”. Other guy, not me. That´s how people like you think. And that is why I am quitting reading your blog. And you can delete the comment if you will, as you will.

    And yet you are so gullible, so laughable. “Most of the stories are posted with good purposes”, “to share good experiences with boyfriends”. You must be really stupid if you don´t know that they post the pictures precisely to expect feedback from other girls, to double check if they bf is not cheating on them. Girls help each others, guys don´t.

    Congrats, after all girls take advantage on us men precisely thanks to all the stupids out there who wouldn´t help a buddy.

    1. 4 May, 2016 at 5:02 pm

      Marcus, but who was phone?

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