How to Meet Good Thai girls in Thailand
My blog has many different niche groups.
You have the forever aloners who have never spoken to a girl, but want to move to Thailand.
You have the young digital nomads who are saying NO to the Matrix and trying to figure things out in the War Zone.
You have successfully Bangkok expats who read my site but won’t admit it to anyone.
You have the Indians who message me every other day asking where they can get a weekend Thai hooker for 322?.
You have a group of older guys (30+) who are tired of being the bachelor, or are divorced/broken up and are looking to find a good Thai Girlfriend.
This article is for them!
But the rest of you can tag along for the ride.
In this article, I’ve jotted down my thoughts on various places you can visit to meet the Thai girl who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Nightclubs
Nightclubs are perfect if you’re not ready to settle down and just want short relationships or flings.
Most girls who visit nightclubs want the same.
Most 25-year-old Thai girls (and girls in general for that matter) are not mentally ready for a long-term relationship.
Most girls you end up dating from Thai nightclubs will not blossom into 20-30 year relationship, it’s possible but there are better places to visit.
If you’re looking for something serious, I would avoid nightclubs. If you don’t want something serious, they are great.
The photo below is from Bar Next Door located on Koh San Road, it’s a club nobody knows about. Was there one night this year and it was packed with uni girls. No white people either. Cheap drinks, good vibes.
Remember you heard it here first, no doubt this will be listed on every other Bangkok blog now.
Bars
Bars can be great places to meet Thai girls.
You’ll get a huge mix of Thai girls in here from pre-drinkers who are ready to hit a club, to the innocent ones who are having a cheeky beer before their 9pm bedtime.
https://www.instagram.com/p/Bd7gHkBhqM5/?taken-by=ainubar
Whether you like sexy or the girl next door, bars in Thailand have both.
Just don’t go looking for your Thai girlfriend at go-go bars:
Night markets
Night markets in Thailand are the best.
Everything is cheap, lots of food to eat from and it’s packed with hotties.
As far as the eye can see, there are girls everywhere!
They are really easy to approach, you’ll see a variety of girls here from office workers, university singlets and everything in between.
Markets I really like are JJ Green and Talad Rod Fai Night Market at Ratchada.
Gyms and studios
Yoga studios, gyms, running groups and sports clubs can be really good places to meet Thai girls.
But don’t do yoga to meet Thai girls, or join a spin class to hit on chicks as that’s just fucking creepy.
Actually do the fucking thing because you enjoy it, and if you happen to meet a girl out of it then chances are she is going to be great.
Co-working spaces
If you’re looking for a self-starter and hard worker, co-working spaces are the way to go.
I prefer to work at home but co-working spaces are good spots to make friends and meet all types of girls, not just thai.
Related: learn where to meet girls in Laos or 8 things I like about Cambodian girls.
Again go to a co-working space if you actually want to work, don’t be the creep who hits on all the girls.
Parks
Parks attract everyone.
https://www.instagram.com/p/BdxWfdwhNfV/?tagged=benchasiripark
Office girls, fitness chicks, girls reading, running and talking a stroll. So whatever little girlfriend fetish you have, you will be able to appease your appetite here.
If you struggle to talk to girls because you lack confidence, parks are good places to start because barriers are low. It’s much easier to say hello to girls at parks then a nightclub or bar where they are tired of guys hitting on them.
Just stay away from the kids.
Dating sites
Dating sites are an okay to find your final Thai girlfriend, but there are much better places.
“REALLY?, but you’re pimping them all over your website?”
Everyone on dating sites in Thailand is fucked up.
The average girl gets 47 dick picks, 14 people asking to fuck her for money, 7 shirtless guys messaging her with a pick up line, 3 white knights warning her about the people I just mentioned, and that 1 guy (that’s you buddy) who is actually looking for a serious relationship saying “hey sup” sent to her every 12 hours.
If after a few days, any girl decides to remain on an online dating site, you really have to wonder.
Actually, I am being a little harsh here, I know dozens of people who found their Thai girlfriend on dating sites and they are doing very well together.
But due to the fact that all interactions are done online, guys and girls are both using photos from years ago that are filtered AF, it’s really hard to know what a girl is really like without asking for her Skype to video call.
Dating sites are best used before you visit Thailand to build friendships, or if you’re a forever alone loser and cannot talk to girls without pissing your pants.
I have premium memberships to all Thai dating sites.
Please don’t visit these places to pick up girls
I’ve just told you several points of interest where you can go and meet really nice Thai girls but…
Don’t go to a mall or park and hit on 30 chicks seeing how many numbers you can get.
Don’t visit a night market like a little creepy pervert eyeing every single girl, or doing laps around the venue picking up numbers.
Please don’t do that.
You want everything to be organic, visit a park once or twice a week to read, run, get some Vitamin D. If that sounds boring then don’t visit the park.
Do CrossFit or tennis because you like to play either, not because you think you can pick up chicks.
If you’re doing this then your mindset is wrong, your focus should be on doing things you enjoy and then the girls will come naturally.
You don’t know how many times I’ve been to a night market and a group of Thai girls come and approach our table giving one of us their LINE ID.
We were not hitting on any girls, we were just having fun and shooting the shit.
I’ll give you an example on how to pick up a girl.
Related: learn more about Burmese girls.
Let’s say you enjoy parks and walking, so one day you head to the park and just happen to see a stunning Thai girl that you have to talk to.
Perfect, then go talk to her for a few minutes only, anything longer and you may creep her out.
After you’re done talking, tell her it was nice meeting her and give her your LINE ID or telephone number on a piece of paper. Then turn around and run away.
The reason I like the old school number on a paper is there is less awkwardness between you both of you.
Now she has the option to contact you or throw the paper in the bin.
If you ask for her number or LINE ID, it’s really hard for her to say no, Thai girls will give you their contact info even if they don’t want to, but then they won’t message you, or they will reply with 1-word replies because they don’t like you.
The paper handover is instant too and nobody will see, whereas asking for her number means you both have your phones out, and people nearby are looking and judging.
I like the paper method for all public venues where you’re approaching a girl for the first time.
What did you think of this article? Leave a comment letting me know.
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Wow. This is legit advice. My question is what do local guys think if they saw you firlting with their women? In Mongolia, Mongol girls of OFF LIMITS says the hyper jealous mongol dudes who not only want to beat YOU up but beat up the GIRL!
Do thai guys, or even thai society have that mentailty when farang date thais? especially if she one of the more attractive ones?
There is no stigma here, I very rarely see a Thai guy interfere. There are a few venues to avoid such as Ratchada soi 4 and I have heard of a few people getting in fights at Demo because of it. But for the most part there is no trouble, just don’t talk to girls who are in a group with guys.
You should also add: If someone is looking for the “good” quality thai girl (the long term, conservative marriage types) that it will have to be inevitable that one MUST learn at least basic thai. Learning Thai, from what I was told by a thai girl, gives you a huge advantage over other farangs and possibly other thais, most especially since often times that thais do not completely understand the english language due to cultural reasons.
There were many times I have talked to thai girls online who gave those simple “yes” , “no” or short answer questions and I raged blocked them because I though they were moody or didn’t want to message me or some sort……………only to find out that they simply were being polite and thought that simple answers were easier to communicate with. One girl got back in contact with me and told me that there were certain things she did not understand and thought that giving short answers was normal in the English language.
Communication with them can be very frustrating!
Yes if you learn Thai then it becomes easier, the downside is the time invested. If you speak no Thai it’s best to avoid girls who cannot speak very good English.
Hey Harvie
Do you get the chance to visit neighbouring countries to Thailand like Indonesia, Malaysia, Singapore or Cambodia? If so, could you write about how they compare to Bangkok, or Thailand from culture, lifestyle, food and girls… basically stuff you already write about but from another country’s perspective. I’d be keen to read your thoughts.
Cheers
Hulk
Hey Hulk,
that’s a good article, I can do that. What criteria should I measure them on? I’ll come up with my own but if you have ideas let me know.
I’ll leave the criteria part to you mate. Thailand is perfectly located to some awesome countries in SE Asia… it would be great just to talk about a bit more about them. Please also include Vietnam too 🙂
Harvie, get a couple of guest articles in.
You’re starting to sound like a broken record
(for you milennials, a record is a piece of vinyl, usually 12” in diameter, that contains one or more music tracks. When they get old or dusty, they get stuck and repeat the same part of a song over and over until you take it off)
I’m not trolling you, just making a suggestion.
You’re not going to like my next article then :D.
Is the article about miserable internet trolls that can’t get laid?
I will comment on your bit about parks though…..
In Chatuchak Park after about 6pm to 9pm, l am and have been only one of around 5 farang who go jogging here. Often the only one too.
The huge number of girls that come here alone outnumbers the men, and if any of your fitter readers could haul their asses up here on any evening, a reward would be easier had than trying your suggested approach technique in that Chinese tourist infested Rotfai market.
But if anyone reading this is of the lower health rating or just plain unfit, forget the park as security will be onto you like a shot.
They don’t take kindly to sad looking farangs in slippers/vest/shorts harassing joggers, and booze & fags are banned so thats a no-no anyway.
^BTW l’ve never directly tried getting a date at the park, a couple of conversations have led to dates. Just saying it’s a very ideal environment. Readers here should have no problems starting a (face to face) chat though.
To the many whore chasing readers, you won’t find any cheap hoes, sluts or slagdogs working out here so don’t bother. I doubt you could afford the bts fare anyway.
Or all you pathetic fat farangs could find a girl in your home countries. Oops nevermind, that didn’t work out for you. God I love reading this gold, thank you for so much entertainment. You forget to address the readers who laugh at every single post about “getting thai chicks”. Just admit what you are already.
:(.
@Damnhomie
So how are all those girls in your home country? Get a lot of dates do you? Are they lined up queuing at your trailer park prefab shack?
You’re posting on a Thai themed forum so you must be curious about Thai girls or are just another broke ass loser who can’t haul his punk ass to apply for a passport.
Doesn’t mean it didn’t work out at home with farang girls. Aren’t blokes allowed to hate farang women without being branded losers?
Nowadays most female farang feminazi are a f**king pain in the arse.
What about blokes who simply like Asian girls?
@Damnhomie – Hey I know you’re the guy who got his heartbroken by a ladyboy who stole all your money in Thailand last year. I feel for ya man. You’ve been trolling several blog sites lately. But don’t be a hater. There’s plenty of Ladyboy fish in the sea. Don’t let a few bad experiences in Thailand get ya down.
Thai girls never approach me but I approached a few of them. Some of them gave me their line id and some of them didn’t. You give us lots of helpful information but I think you may not good at getting hot girls.
You’re right, I only get cold ones.
@Harvie – Good post. But is there still such a thing as a “Good Thai Girl?”….I thought 95% of attractive women in Thailand work in the sex industry (or have worked in the industry previously) and the other 5% are post-op ladyboys? …Maybe I’m just jaded. Lol ;-P
No jaded, you must just hang around in Nana and Asoke 😉